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[Applause] hey Geeks welcome back to another
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hey Geeks welcome back to another
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hey Geeks welcome back to another exciting uh episode of rock in the cold
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exciting uh episode of rock in the cold
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exciting uh episode of rock in the cold world with donet Dave I'm Dave mcarter
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world with donet Dave I'm Dave mcarter
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world with donet Dave I'm Dave mcarter I'm glad you're all back it's been a
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I'm glad you're all back it's been a
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I'm glad you're all back it's been a month I've missed you all it's uh it
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month I've missed you all it's uh it
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month I've missed you all it's uh it seems like I was just telling Simon it
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seems like I was just telling Simon it
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seems like I was just telling Simon it seems like it's been longer than a month
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seems like it's been longer than a month
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seems like it's been longer than a month since the last show so I'm I'm really
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since the last show so I'm I'm really
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since the last show so I'm I'm really excited about the show and this show and
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excited about the show and this show and
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excited about the show and this show and I'm really excited about the topic too
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I'm really excited about the topic too
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I'm really excited about the topic too so uh let's get into it so my my special
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so uh let's get into it so my my special
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so uh let's get into it so my my special guest today is a Steve Stedman I think
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guest today is a Steve Stedman I think
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guest today is a Steve Stedman I think uh if I count correctly Simon can tell
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uh if I count correctly Simon can tell
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uh if I count correctly Simon can tell me if if I miscount it this is his third
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me if if I miscount it this is his third
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me if if I miscount it this is his third time on the show and usually you know
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time on the show and usually you know
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time on the show and usually you know Steve is a uh uh Steve is a database
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Steve is a uh uh Steve is a database
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Steve is a uh uh Steve is a database expert actually he has a database tool
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expert actually he has a database tool
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expert actually he has a database tool that I have to use if I'm using SQL
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that I have to use if I'm using SQL
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that I have to use if I'm using SQL Server because it just is an awesome
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Server because it just is an awesome
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Server because it just is an awesome awesome tool um but you know we're not
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awesome tool um but you know we're not
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awesome tool um but you know we're not going to be talking about that today um
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going to be talking about that today um
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going to be talking about that today um we're going to be talking about getting
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we're going to be talking about getting
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we're going to be talking about getting to retirement in Tech and I'll talk
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to retirement in Tech and I'll talk
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to retirement in Tech and I'll talk about that in just a couple in just a
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about that in just a couple in just a
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about that in just a couple in just a minute uh some more so this is show
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minute uh some more so this is show
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minute uh some more so this is show 104 uh wow it's a big number um I hope
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104 uh wow it's a big number um I hope
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104 uh wow it's a big number um I hope you all had everybody in America at
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you all had everybody in America at
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you all had everybody in America at least I hope you all had a great uh July
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least I hope you all had a great uh July
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least I hope you all had a great uh July 4th holiday and and everybody is safe
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4th holiday and and everybody is safe
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4th holiday and and everybody is safe and uh you didn't die in the sweltering
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and uh you didn't die in the sweltering
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and uh you didn't die in the sweltering heat that um a lot of America is dealing
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heat that um a lot of America is dealing
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heat that um a lot of America is dealing with um not me of course because I live
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with um not me of course because I live
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with um not me of course because I live in San Diego but a lot of America but
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in San Diego but a lot of America but
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in San Diego but a lot of America but summer is finally here in San Diego I
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summer is finally here in San Diego I
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summer is finally here in San Diego I was worrying that we going to have a uh
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was worrying that we going to have a uh
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was worrying that we going to have a uh a crappy summer like last year but um it
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a crappy summer like last year but um it
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a crappy summer like last year but um it looks like it's uh turning around this
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looks like it's uh turning around this
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looks like it's uh turning around this year so beautiful day it's been
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year so beautiful day it's been
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year so beautiful day it's been beautiful outside here uh not too hot by
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beautiful outside here uh not too hot by
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beautiful outside here uh not too hot by the beach where I live and so if you
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the beach where I live and so if you
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the beach where I live and so if you want to come visit me you're more than
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want to come visit me you're more than
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want to come visit me you're more than welcome to I'm always willing to hang
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welcome to I'm always willing to hang
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welcome to I'm always willing to hang out and uh show people uh why I love uh
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out and uh show people uh why I love uh
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out and uh show people uh why I love uh San Diego so much anyway uh so let's get
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San Diego so much anyway uh so let's get
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San Diego so much anyway uh so let's get to the show
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to the show um wait I thought I had
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um wait I thought I had
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um wait I thought I had another did I not unhide that uh anyway
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another did I not unhide that uh anyway
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another did I not unhide that uh anyway I I think I screwed up one of my slides
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I I think I screwed up one of my slides
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I I think I screwed up one of my slides anyway what I want to talk about is uh
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anyway what I want to talk about is uh
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anyway what I want to talk about is uh promote is in on September I think it's
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promote is in on September I think it's
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promote is in on September I think it's September 7th I'm going uh to do a panel
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September 7th I'm going uh to do a panel
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September 7th I'm going uh to do a panel show very special panel show um where
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show very special panel show um where
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show very special panel show um where we're going to be talking about this
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we're going to be talking about this
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we're going to be talking about this subject uh which is H basically uh
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subject uh which is H basically uh
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subject uh which is H basically uh giving advice to younger
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giving advice to younger
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giving advice to younger developers uh uh so when they hit you
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developers uh uh so when they hit you
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developers uh uh so when they hit you know 30 years of uh being a software
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know 30 years of uh being a software
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know 30 years of uh being a software engineer like myself uh they're more
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engineer like myself uh they're more
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engineer like myself uh they're more prepared than I am because you know I
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prepared than I am because you know I
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prepared than I am because you know I didn't get any advice uh I had no advice
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didn't get any advice uh I had no advice
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didn't get any advice uh I had no advice when I was a younger software engineer
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when I was a younger software engineer
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when I was a younger software engineer um I think part of that was because you
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um I think part of that was because you
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um I think part of that was because you know software engineering was still
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know software engineering was still
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know software engineering was still relatively young back then and so there
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relatively young back then and so there
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relatively young back then and so there wasn't a lot of uh back you know back
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wasn't a lot of uh back you know back
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wasn't a lot of uh back you know back information uh but but now software
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information uh but but now software
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information uh but but now software engineering's been around a long time
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engineering's been around a long time
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engineering's been around a long time and and a lot of people have uh come
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and and a lot of people have uh come
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and and a lot of people have uh come through this industry a lot of people
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through this industry a lot of people
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through this industry a lot of people have retired and I want to prepare the
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have retired and I want to prepare the
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have retired and I want to prepare the younger developers to to not struggle as
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younger developers to to not struggle as
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younger developers to to not struggle as much as I am right now uh in this career
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much as I am right now uh in this career
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much as I am right now uh in this career uh being this uh you know being around
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uh being this uh you know being around
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uh being this uh you know being around this long so anyway so that's the topic
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this long so anyway so that's the topic
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this long so anyway so that's the topic for today and that will be the topic in
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for today and that will be the topic in
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for today and that will be the topic in in two months in September to and I hope
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in two months in September to and I hope
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in two months in September to and I hope you'll uh come back on in September
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you'll uh come back on in September
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you'll uh come back on in September because I have a special panel of
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because I have a special panel of
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because I have a special panel of experts from uh around the world
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experts from uh around the world
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experts from uh around the world including uh two from Microsoft and uh
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including uh two from Microsoft and uh
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including uh two from Microsoft and uh we're going to have a really great
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we're going to have a really great
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we're going to have a really great discussion and so I hope you come back
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discussion and so I hope you come back
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discussion and so I hope you come back um sorry I'm on the wrong
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screen so I want to promote my code
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screen so I want to promote my code
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screen so I want to promote my code performance book it's out um it's still
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performance book it's out um it's still
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performance book it's out um it's still on sale this month uh so if you want to
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on sale this month uh so if you want to
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on sale this month uh so if you want to get a copy of my brand new code
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get a copy of my brand new code
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get a copy of my brand new code performance book on Microsoft done at 8
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performance book on Microsoft done at 8
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performance book on Microsoft done at 8 I hope you do um because the price will
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I hope you do um because the price will
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I hope you do um because the price will increase at the end of this month so if
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increase at the end of this month so if
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increase at the end of this month so if you're holding off uh getting a copy uh
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you're holding off uh getting a copy uh
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you're holding off uh getting a copy uh you can save some money if you buy right
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you can save some money if you buy right
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you can save some money if you buy right now so I hope you go do that um and I
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now so I hope you go do that um and I
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now so I hope you go do that um and I continually to do work on uh performance
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continually to do work on uh performance
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continually to do work on uh performance actually uh something and I'll be
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actually uh something and I'll be
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actually uh something and I'll be writing more about this I have some
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writing more about this I have some
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writing more about this I have some articles already uh uh done and we'll be
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articles already uh uh done and we'll be
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articles already uh uh done and we'll be coming out soon about how I've been
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coming out soon about how I've been
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coming out soon about how I've been using co-pilot to actually make my open-
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using co-pilot to actually make my open-
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using co-pilot to actually make my open- source project spon faster and and
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source project spon faster and and
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source project spon faster and and there's one method in in the uh upcoming
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there's one method in in the uh upcoming
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there's one method in in the uh upcoming August release that has the performance
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August release that has the performance
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August release that has the performance has increased uh over 1,500 times on one
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has increased uh over 1,500 times on one
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has increased uh over 1,500 times on one method uh just using uh GitHub co-pilot
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method uh just using uh GitHub co-pilot
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method uh just using uh GitHub co-pilot so um I thought spon was really fast but
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so um I thought spon was really fast but
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so um I thought spon was really fast but I'm finding out that there was room for
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I'm finding out that there was room for
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I'm finding out that there was room for approvement just like in any code really
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approvement just like in any code really
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approvement just like in any code really uh so anyway uh I hope you uh get a copy
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uh so anyway uh I hope you uh get a copy
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uh so anyway uh I hope you uh get a copy of the book before the price goes up and
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of the book before the price goes up and
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of the book before the price goes up and I hope you stay tuned to my website um
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I hope you stay tuned to my website um
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I hope you stay tuned to my website um when those articles come
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when those articles come
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when those articles come out also so um my coding standards book
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out also so um my coding standards book
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out also so um my coding standards book is out I hope you get a copy of that
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is out I hope you get a copy of that
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is out I hope you get a copy of that came out the early um beginning of this
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came out the early um beginning of this
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came out the early um beginning of this year um we all need coding standards
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year um we all need coding standards
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year um we all need coding standards especially uh the code I see definitely
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especially uh the code I see definitely
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especially uh the code I see definitely needs coding standards uh you know as a
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needs coding standards uh you know as a
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needs coding standards uh you know as a contractor I see the worst code ever and
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contractor I see the worst code ever and
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contractor I see the worst code ever and uh so that's why we need standards so I
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uh so that's why we need standards so I
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uh so that's why we need standards so I hope you go pick up a copy and you can
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hope you go pick up a copy and you can
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hope you go pick up a copy and you can even get a hardbound copy too someone
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even get a hardbound copy too someone
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even get a hardbound copy too someone bought one I didn't think anybody would
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bought one I didn't think anybody would
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bought one I didn't think anybody would I just basically did it to give away p
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I just basically did it to give away p
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I just basically did it to give away p is uh you know prizes and stuff but
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is uh you know prizes and stuff but
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is uh you know prizes and stuff but someone bought one huh who knew so uh I
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someone bought one huh who knew so uh I
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someone bought one huh who knew so uh I hope you go get
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hope you go get that oh I did have the slide it was in
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that oh I did have the slide it was in
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that oh I did have the slide it was in the wrong place so anyway oh nope I'm
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the wrong place so anyway oh nope I'm
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the wrong place so anyway oh nope I'm getting all mixed up so yesterday was my
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getting all mixed up so yesterday was my
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getting all mixed up so yesterday was my 30th year anniversary of speaking in
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30th year anniversary of speaking in
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30th year anniversary of speaking in public uh July 5th uh
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public uh July 5th uh
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public uh July 5th uh 1994 was the first time I spoke in front
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1994 was the first time I spoke in front
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1994 was the first time I spoke in front of a group of people
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of a group of people uh which was terrifying to me and it was
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uh which was terrifying to me and it was
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uh which was terrifying to me and it was for a while and I I know some of you out
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for a while and I I know some of you out
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for a while and I I know some of you out there who have seen me speak or have
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there who have seen me speak or have
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there who have seen me speak or have seen me in in uh uh you know India or
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seen me in in uh uh you know India or
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seen me in in uh uh you know India or other conferences and you you know you
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other conferences and you you know you
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other conferences and you you know you see me you know speak in front of people
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see me you know speak in front of people
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see me you know speak in front of people super easy and it seems to come
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super easy and it seems to come
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super easy and it seems to come naturally well it didn't it was a lot a
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naturally well it didn't it was a lot a
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naturally well it didn't it was a lot a lot of hard work uh you know when I
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lot of hard work uh you know when I
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lot of hard work uh you know when I started speaking you know I hated
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started speaking you know I hated
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started speaking you know I hated talking in front of people I I um you
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talking in front of people I I um you
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talking in front of people I I um you know it was my second biggest fear and I
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know it was my second biggest fear and I
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know it was my second biggest fear and I avoided it at all costs even when I was
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avoided it at all costs even when I was
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avoided it at all costs even when I was in school and um but I was able to turn
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in school and um but I was able to turn
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in school and um but I was able to turn that around and so this first article
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that around and so this first article
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that around and so this first article that came out yesterday um is kind of an
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that came out yesterday um is kind of an
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that came out yesterday um is kind of an overview of you know
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overview of you know everything that speaking in public has
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everything that speaking in public has
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everything that speaking in public has uh has taught me in the last 30 years
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uh has taught me in the last 30 years
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uh has taught me in the last 30 years and and in the article I hope you read
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and and in the article I hope you read
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and and in the article I hope you read it is you know I state that you know my
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it is you know I state that you know my
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it is you know I state that you know my career would have been much different if
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career would have been much different if
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career would have been much different if I didn't learn how to speak in front of
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I didn't learn how to speak in front of
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I didn't learn how to speak in front of people and communicate properly you know
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people and communicate properly you know
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people and communicate properly you know from from developers all the way up to
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from from developers all the way up to
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from from developers all the way up to CEOs and I share a story about uh you
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CEOs and I share a story about uh you
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CEOs and I share a story about uh you know a time when a CEO uh confided with
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know a time when a CEO uh confided with
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know a time when a CEO uh confided with me and you know we had to change
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me and you know we had to change
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me and you know we had to change direction for the company so and I don't
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direction for the company so and I don't
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direction for the company so and I don't think that would have happened if I
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think that would have happened if I
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think that would have happened if I didn't learn how to speak and I wasn't a
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didn't learn how to speak and I wasn't a
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didn't learn how to speak and I wasn't a teacher at a university and you know all
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teacher at a university and you know all
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teacher at a university and you know all those kind of things and so you know
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those kind of things and so you know
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those kind of things and so you know these this art article and the article
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these this art article and the article
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these this art article and the article is coming out is is hopefully there so
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is coming out is is hopefully there so
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is coming out is is hopefully there so to inspire you all who don't speak uh to
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to inspire you all who don't speak uh to
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to inspire you all who don't speak uh to give you encouragement to do it because
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give you encouragement to do it because
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give you encouragement to do it because it will enrich your career and your
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it will enrich your career and your
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it will enrich your career and your personal life uh as I also state in the
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personal life uh as I also state in the
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personal life uh as I also state in the article so um I hope you go uh uh not
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article so um I hope you go uh uh not
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article so um I hope you go uh uh not only read that article but uh stay tuned
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only read that article but uh stay tuned
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only read that article but uh stay tuned to uh my website because I have other
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to uh my website because I have other
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to uh my website because I have other articles done and will be coming out in
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articles done and will be coming out in
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articles done and will be coming out in subsequent weeks so um I hope you go
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subsequent weeks so um I hope you go
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subsequent weeks so um I hope you go check that out all right so I want to uh
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check that out all right so I want to uh
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check that out all right so I want to uh bring uh Steve back on he's the founder
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bring uh Steve back on he's the founder
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bring uh Steve back on he's the founder of a St uh stemman Solutions LLC where
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of a St uh stemman Solutions LLC where
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of a St uh stemman Solutions LLC where he and stemman solutions team has been
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he and stemman solutions team has been
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he and stemman solutions team has been supporting his customers in SQL Server
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supporting his customers in SQL Server
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supporting his customers in SQL Server environments for the last nine years
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environments for the last nine years
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environments for the last nine years he's also uh been he has 34 years of SQL
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he's also uh been he has 34 years of SQL
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he's also uh been he has 34 years of SQL uh server experience with uh SQL server
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uh server experience with uh SQL server
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uh server experience with uh SQL server and other database platforms as he's the
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and other database platforms as he's the
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and other database platforms as he's the Creator and been primary developer of
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Creator and been primary developer of
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Creator and been primary developer of the database health monitor that's the
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the database health monitor that's the
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the database health monitor that's the application that I mentioned a couple
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application that I mentioned a couple
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application that I mentioned a couple minutes ago that you know when I'm using
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minutes ago that you know when I'm using
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minutes ago that you know when I'm using SQL Server I have to use that monitor uh
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SQL Server I have to use that monitor uh
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SQL Server I have to use that monitor uh it's so so helpful and uh and he's been
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it's so so helpful and uh and he's been
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it's so so helpful and uh and he's been doing that for 13 years so welcome
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doing that for 13 years so welcome
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doing that for 13 years so welcome Steve hey David thanks for having me on
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Steve hey David thanks for having me on
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Steve hey David thanks for having me on the show yeah welcome back third time
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the show yeah welcome back third time
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the show yeah welcome back third time and congratulations on your 30 years of
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and congratulations on your 30 years of
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and congratulations on your 30 years of public speaking thank you I can remember
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public speaking thank you I can remember
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public speaking thank you I can remember back to the beginning and how how
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back to the beginning and how how
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back to the beginning and how how terrified I was too oh my gosh I was so
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terrified I was too oh my gosh I was so
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terrified I was too oh my gosh I was so terrified and you know in in that first
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terrified and you know in in that first
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terrified and you know in in that first article I I briefly share uh my
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article I I briefly share uh my
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article I I briefly share uh my experience of the first time I spoke at
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experience of the first time I spoke at
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experience of the first time I spoke at an actual conference you know which uh
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an actual conference you know which uh
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an actual conference you know which uh uh was a local conference here uh put on
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uh was a local conference here uh put on
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uh was a local conference here uh put on by a a local computer magazine that we
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by a a local computer magazine that we
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by a a local computer magazine that we used to have here back in the 90s and um
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used to have here back in the 90s and um
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used to have here back in the 90s and um they asked me to speak at their com
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they asked me to speak at their com
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they asked me to speak at their com their annual conference and I was
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their annual conference and I was
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their annual conference and I was terrified you know I my stomach I I had
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terrified you know I my stomach I I had
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terrified you know I my stomach I I had a hard time getting out of the bathroom
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a hard time getting out of the bathroom
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a hard time getting out of the bathroom at the event you know because I just my
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at the event you know because I just my
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at the event you know because I just my nerves was just really bad you know and
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nerves was just really bad you know and
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nerves was just really bad you know and uh yep oh yeah and and
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uh yep oh yeah and and
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uh yep oh yeah and and so I think anyone who's spoken for long
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so I think anyone who's spoken for long
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so I think anyone who's spoken for long term has been there in the beginning
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term has been there in the beginning
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term has been there in the beginning right yeah yeah I you know I know a lot
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right yeah yeah I you know I know a lot
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right yeah yeah I you know I know a lot of people speak as long as I and still
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of people speak as long as I and still
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of people speak as long as I and still get you know nervous and and afraid
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get you know nervous and and afraid
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get you know nervous and and afraid sometimes when they speak luckily I
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sometimes when they speak luckily I
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sometimes when they speak luckily I don't have that anymore thank goodness
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don't have that anymore thank goodness
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don't have that anymore thank goodness you know the you know as I stated in the
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you know the you know as I stated in the
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you know the you know as I stated in the article like the the only time I get a
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article like the the only time I get a
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article like the the only time I get a little bit nervous now is the first time
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little bit nervous now is the first time
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little bit nervous now is the first time I speak in a new country because I'm not
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I speak in a new country because I'm not
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I speak in a new country because I'm not really sure you know how the developers
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really sure you know how the developers
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really sure you know how the developers react to things there right and uh oh
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react to things there right and uh oh
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react to things there right and uh oh sure yeah yeah so uh there's actually a
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sure yeah yeah so uh there's actually a
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sure yeah yeah so uh there's actually a picture of me the first time I spoke in
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picture of me the first time I spoke in
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picture of me the first time I spoke in India trying to mentally prepare myself
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India trying to mentally prepare myself
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India trying to mentally prepare myself I'm sitting on the floor trying to you
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I'm sitting on the floor trying to you
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I'm sitting on the floor trying to you know uh get get rid of the nervousness a
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know uh get get rid of the nervousness a
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know uh get get rid of the nervousness a little bit uh before I spoke the first
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little bit uh before I spoke the first
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little bit uh before I spoke the first time in India right and uh and so yeah
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time in India right and uh and so yeah
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time in India right and uh and so yeah it's been a it's been a long career I I
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it's been a it's been a long career I I
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it's been a it's been a long career I I mean a long time I've been speaking but
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mean a long time I've been speaking but
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mean a long time I've been speaking but for me you know it's been really
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for me you know it's been really
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for me you know it's been really rewarding uh not only like I I said for
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rewarding uh not only like I I said for
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rewarding uh not only like I I said for my career but also you know my personal
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my career but also you know my personal
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my career but also you know my personal life too so yep yep and you know from
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life too so yep yep and you know from
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life too so yep yep and you know from from my perspective on this prior to
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from my perspective on this prior to
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from my perspective on this prior to this interview we're doing right now
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this interview we're doing right now
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this interview we're doing right now almost every time that I've presented
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almost every time that I've presented
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almost every time that I've presented publicly has been on Tech specific
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publicly has been on Tech specific
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publicly has been on Tech specific topics SQL Server how to do make them
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topics SQL Server how to do make them
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topics SQL Server how to do make them more perform and different things with
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more perform and different things with
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more perform and different things with queries and all that so I'm kind of
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queries and all that so I'm kind of
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queries and all that so I'm kind of stepping out on a limb here doing a
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stepping out on a limb here doing a
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stepping out on a limb here doing a little bit different topic this time
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little bit different topic this time
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little bit different topic this time yeah but it's something that's kind of
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yeah but it's something that's kind of
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yeah but it's something that's kind of near and dear to my heart at this point
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near and dear to my heart at this point
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near and dear to my heart at this point as well so yeah and you know um not only
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as well so yeah and you know um not only
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as well so yeah and you know um not only do I write about different kind of
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do I write about different kind of
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do I write about different kind of subjects you know uh than other other
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subjects you know uh than other other
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subjects you know uh than other other than just Tech but kind of tech related
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than just Tech but kind of tech related
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than just Tech but kind of tech related adjacent right um it you know I've found
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adjacent right um it you know I've found
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adjacent right um it you know I've found it harder to write or talk about those
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it harder to write or talk about those
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it harder to write or talk about those things right because you know you and I
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things right because you know you and I
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things right because you know you and I are tech people and we know our Tech
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are tech people and we know our Tech
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are tech people and we know our Tech stuff and so we can you know spit that
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stuff and so we can you know spit that
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stuff and so we can you know spit that out the top of our heads but when it
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out the top of our heads but when it
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out the top of our heads but when it comes to other you know more soft skills
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comes to other you know more soft skills
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comes to other you know more soft skills I guess you would say it's it's harder
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I guess you would say it's it's harder
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I guess you would say it's it's harder right oh absolutely yep and and
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right oh absolutely yep and and
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right oh absolutely yep and and especially because we don't know how
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especially because we don't know how
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especially because we don't know how it'll be received right and and and so
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it'll be received right and and and so
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it'll be received right and and and so you know I know we usually don't get a
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you know I know we usually don't get a
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you know I know we usually don't get a lot of people watching live but you know
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lot of people watching live but you know
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lot of people watching live but you know if you are watching live please uh let
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if you are watching live please uh let
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if you are watching live please uh let us know uh that you are and and where
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us know uh that you are and and where
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us know uh that you are and and where you're watching from but if you're
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you're watching from but if you're
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you're watching from but if you're watching this recorded you know please
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watching this recorded you know please
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watching this recorded you know please tell your younger developers to watch
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tell your younger developers to watch
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tell your younger developers to watch this show uh because they need to you
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this show uh because they need to you
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this show uh because they need to you know think about this even when they're
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know think about this even when they're
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know think about this even when they're a beginner and uh and uh and and and
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a beginner and uh and uh and and and
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a beginner and uh and uh and and and like I said earlier we'll be talking
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like I said earlier we'll be talking
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like I said earlier we'll be talking about this on the panel show in in
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about this on the panel show in in
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about this on the panel show in in September also so yeah well shall I jump
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September also so yeah well shall I jump
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September also so yeah well shall I jump into talking about retirement then so I
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into talking about retirement then so I
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into talking about retirement then so I mean this is one of those things that I
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mean this is one of those things that I
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mean this is one of those things that I mean I I I guess I should say early on I
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mean I I I guess I should say early on I
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mean I I I guess I should say early on I didn't have the best planning uh I
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didn't have the best planning uh I
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didn't have the best planning uh I didn't know what I was doing and I think
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didn't know what I was doing and I think
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didn't know what I was doing and I think that uh I'm at the point where I'm in my
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that uh I'm at the point where I'm in my
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that uh I'm at the point where I'm in my mid-50s and I'm trying to get to the
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mid-50s and I'm trying to get to the
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mid-50s and I'm trying to get to the point of one day getting to retirement
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point of one day getting to retirement
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point of one day getting to retirement uh I don't think it's gonna be this year
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uh I don't think it's gonna be this year
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uh I don't think it's gonna be this year I don't think it's gonna be next year
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I don't think it's gonna be next year
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I don't think it's gonna be next year but hopefully I'll get there one day and
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but hopefully I'll get there one day and
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but hopefully I'll get there one day and I've seen too many people in Tech get to
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I've seen too many people in Tech get to
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I've seen too many people in Tech get to the point that uh they just keep working
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the point that uh they just keep working
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the point that uh they just keep working indefinitely and to the point that once
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indefinitely and to the point that once
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indefinitely and to the point that once they finally do retire they have less
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they finally do retire they have less
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they finally do retire they have less than a couple years left before they're
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than a couple years left before they're
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than a couple years left before they're no longer longer around and I think that
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no longer longer around and I think that
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no longer longer around and I think that uh that that makes me sad when I see
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uh that that makes me sad when I see
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uh that that makes me sad when I see people have worked so hard it's for so
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people have worked so hard it's for so
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people have worked so hard it's for so many companies over the years to help
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many companies over the years to help
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many companies over the years to help them succeed and I think that
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them succeed and I think that
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them succeed and I think that uh the other end of it is you've got
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uh the other end of it is you've got
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uh the other end of it is you've got people who have like stock options that
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people who have like stock options that
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people who have like stock options that have just hit it big I mean I remember
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have just hit it big I mean I remember
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have just hit it big I mean I remember in 2000 I was working at Amazon and I
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in 2000 I was working at Amazon and I
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in 2000 I was working at Amazon and I had stock options and I'd worked there
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had stock options and I'd worked there
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had stock options and I'd worked there like seven months and my stock options
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like seven months and my stock options
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like seven months and my stock options were over a million dollars value and uh
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were over a million dollars value and uh
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were over a million dollars value and uh then came March of 2020 and they went
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then came March of 2020 and they went
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then came March of 2020 and they went all negative before I could even cash in
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all negative before I could even cash in
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all negative before I could even cash in a single one and I've had a couple other
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a single one and I've had a couple other
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a single one and I've had a couple other employers I've worked for where I've had
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employers I've worked for where I've had
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employers I've worked for where I've had stock options that I thought oh this is
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stock options that I thought oh this is
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stock options that I thought oh this is a lot of money if I if I if this
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a lot of money if I if I if this
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a lot of money if I if I if this actually goes through I could retire one
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actually goes through I could retire one
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actually goes through I could retire one day and then well a lot of things happen
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day and then well a lot of things happen
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day and then well a lot of things happen along the way with
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along the way with companies yeah it did and you know and I
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companies yeah it did and you know and I
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companies yeah it did and you know and I you know this is of course a longer
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you know this is of course a longer
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you know this is of course a longer story that I'll be sharing uh in
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story that I'll be sharing uh in
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story that I'll be sharing uh in articles but but you know I you know in
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articles but but you know I you know in
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articles but but you know I you know in the beginning when I was a beginner one
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the beginning when I was a beginner one
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the beginning when I was a beginner one of the things companies I targeted for a
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of the things companies I targeted for a
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of the things companies I targeted for a few reasons uh were startups right
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few reasons uh were startups right
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few reasons uh were startups right because um I learned a ton working at
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because um I learned a ton working at
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because um I learned a ton working at startups right and be and I tell people
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startups right and be and I tell people
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startups right and be and I tell people if you really want to get experience
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if you really want to get experience
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if you really want to get experience quick work for a startup because you
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quick work for a startup because you
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quick work for a startup because you have to wear many different hats right
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have to wear many different hats right
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have to wear many different hats right but you know the other reason I worked
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but you know the other reason I worked
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but you know the other reason I worked at a startup is because I wanted to hit
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at a startup is because I wanted to hit
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at a startup is because I wanted to hit it big right I wanted the company to
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it big right I wanted the company to
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it big right I wanted the company to make something awesome and then uh
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make something awesome and then uh
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make something awesome and then uh somebody buy the company and I you know
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somebody buy the company and I you know
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somebody buy the company and I you know all that stuff long story short I only
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all that stuff long story short I only
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all that stuff long story short I only work for one company uh that I actually
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work for one company uh that I actually
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work for one company uh that I actually have stock options that you know are
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have stock options that you know are
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have stock options that you know are worth as much as toilet paper right and
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worth as much as toilet paper right and
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worth as much as toilet paper right and uh literally well the company's not even
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uh literally well the company's not even
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uh literally well the company's not even around anymore so but yep but so you
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around anymore so but yep but so you
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around anymore so but yep but so you know my whole dream of you know hitting
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know my whole dream of you know hitting
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know my whole dream of you know hitting it big uh in in startups didn't work you
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it big uh in in startups didn't work you
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it big uh in in startups didn't work you know but that was that was my plan you
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know but that was that was my plan you
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know but that was that was my plan you know my and I had a so you know if you
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know my and I had a so you know if you
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know my and I had a so you know if you hear me today and you hear me you know
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hear me today and you hear me you know
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hear me today and you hear me you know in September I had a plan but those
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in September I had a plan but those
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in September I had a plan but those plans didn't work out none of them did
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plans didn't work out none of them did
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plans didn't work out none of them did to tell you the truth because like I
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to tell you the truth because like I
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to tell you the truth because like I wanted to be retired at 40 then I wanted
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wanted to be retired at 40 then I wanted
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wanted to be retired at 40 then I wanted to be retired at
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to be retired at 50 and I'm still working right and uh so
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50 and I'm still working right and uh so
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50 and I'm still working right and uh so uh I don't even know when I'm going to
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uh I don't even know when I'm going to
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uh I don't even know when I'm going to be able to retire I kind of like like
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be able to retire I kind of like like
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be able to retire I kind of like like what you said you know I'm going to be
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what you said you know I'm going to be
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what you said you know I'm going to be working till I'm dead basically right Y
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working till I'm dead basically right Y
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working till I'm dead basically right Y and that's not the way to enjoy life to
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and that's not the way to enjoy life to
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and that's not the way to enjoy life to me at least and then the other side of
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me at least and then the other side of
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me at least and then the other side of it is like when you do get to retirement
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it is like when you do get to retirement
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it is like when you do get to retirement what is your uh I guess level of uh
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what is your uh I guess level of uh
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what is your uh I guess level of uh living that you're going to be at I mean
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living that you're going to be at I mean
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living that you're going to be at I mean I see people who they they have a pretty
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I see people who they they have a pretty
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I see people who they they have a pretty good lifestyle and then they get to
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good lifestyle and then they get to
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good lifestyle and then they get to retirement and then they move into a
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retirement and then they move into a
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retirement and then they move into a really tiny apartment and they don't
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really tiny apartment and they don't
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really tiny apartment and they don't have the funds or the budget to go do
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have the funds or the budget to go do
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have the funds or the budget to go do anything and they kind of spend the rest
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anything and they kind of spend the rest
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anything and they kind of spend the rest of their life just sitting in a tiny
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of their life just sitting in a tiny
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of their life just sitting in a tiny apartment that uh that isn't really the
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apartment that uh that isn't really the
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apartment that uh that isn't really the retirement life I would want I'd want
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retirement life I would want I'd want
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retirement life I would want I'd want almost rather be working than just doing
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almost rather be working than just doing
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almost rather be working than just doing that so well you know they they tell you
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that so well you know they they tell you
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that so well you know they they tell you that I'm experiencing this right now
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that I'm experiencing this right now
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that I'm experiencing this right now with my neighbors right because you know
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with my neighbors right because you know
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with my neighbors right because you know I live in a a very expensive area of San
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I live in a a very expensive area of San
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I live in a a very expensive area of San Diego and and I have a lot of older
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Diego and and I have a lot of older
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Diego and and I have a lot of older neighbors that I'm getting to know uh
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neighbors that I'm getting to know uh
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neighbors that I'm getting to know uh one I even walk her dog when she's
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one I even walk her dog when she's
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one I even walk her dog when she's golfing and um and I'm hearing this from
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golfing and um and I'm hearing this from
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golfing and um and I'm hearing this from them right they are on fixed incomes
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them right they are on fixed incomes
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them right they are on fixed incomes right and you know they don't have a lot
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right and you know they don't have a lot
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right and you know they don't have a lot of money they they don't go hardly
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of money they they don't go hardly
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of money they they don't go hardly anywhere and that's not what I Envision
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anywhere and that's not what I Envision
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anywhere and that's not what I Envision my retirement for right yep and and that
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my retirement for right yep and and that
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my retirement for right yep and and that term fixed income I mean that just
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term fixed income I mean that just
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term fixed income I mean that just terrifies me I mean I I I don't I mean I
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terrifies me I mean I I I don't I mean I
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terrifies me I mean I I I don't I mean I don't ever want to get to that point and
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don't ever want to get to that point and
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don't ever want to get to that point and I know you look at things you've done
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I know you look at things you've done
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I know you look at things you've done and I mean I'm at the point where I kind
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and I mean I'm at the point where I kind
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and I mean I'm at the point where I kind of look at well yeah I could retire if I
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of look at well yeah I could retire if I
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of look at well yeah I could retire if I sold everything and bought a little tiny
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sold everything and bought a little tiny
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sold everything and bought a little tiny house somewhere and right uh and didn't
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house somewhere and right uh and didn't
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house somewhere and right uh and didn't have the budget to go do stuff but I
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have the budget to go do stuff but I
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have the budget to go do stuff but I want to thrive I want to go and and do
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want to thrive I want to go and and do
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want to thrive I want to go and and do more and I think when I talk about some
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more and I think when I talk about some
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more and I think when I talk about some of the things here that that I'm trying
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of the things here that that I'm trying
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of the things here that that I'm trying to do or that I've done it's not it's
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to do or that I've done it's not it's
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to do or that I've done it's not it's not to boast it's more to sort of share
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not to boast it's more to sort of share
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not to boast it's more to sort of share so that people can learn and and improve
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so that people can learn and and improve
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so that people can learn and and improve along the way do it earlier than I did
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along the way do it earlier than I did
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along the way do it earlier than I did so yeah for for me I think probably
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so yeah for for me I think probably
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so yeah for for me I think probably around 2000 I guess after that uh dot or
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around 2000 I guess after that uh dot or
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around 2000 I guess after that uh dot or uh yeah the dot bubble burst I was
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uh yeah the dot bubble burst I was
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uh yeah the dot bubble burst I was working on Amazon and then I changed
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working on Amazon and then I changed
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working on Amazon and then I changed jobs after that uh I picked up this book
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jobs after that uh I picked up this book
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jobs after that uh I picked up this book uh from Robert kosaki on Rich Dad
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uh from Robert kosaki on Rich Dad
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uh from Robert kosaki on Rich Dad which talked about a lot of uh investing
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which talked about a lot of uh investing
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which talked about a lot of uh investing strategies and and is all about like
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strategies and and is all about like
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strategies and and is all about like recurring income and buy real estate and
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recurring income and buy real estate and
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recurring income and buy real estate and stuff like that so I thought oh I'm
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stuff like that so I thought oh I'm
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stuff like that so I thought oh I'm gonna go do this and then uh in the
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gonna go do this and then uh in the
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gonna go do this and then uh in the beginning buying real estate's a tough
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beginning buying real estate's a tough
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beginning buying real estate's a tough thing to do and I think it is it was
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thing to do and I think it is it was
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thing to do and I think it is it was gosh five years later that we bought our
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gosh five years later that we bought our
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gosh five years later that we bought our first rental property and then uh
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first rental property and then uh
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first rental property and then uh uh from there it's grown but even in
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uh from there it's grown but even in
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uh from there it's grown but even in doing that that's that's kind of a
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doing that that's that's kind of a
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doing that that's that's kind of a long-term investment when you're going
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long-term investment when you're going
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long-term investment when you're going to go buy rental properties because
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to go buy rental properties because
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to go buy rental properties because usually unless you've got a pile of
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usually unless you've got a pile of
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usually unless you've got a pile of money when you're getting started
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money when you're getting started
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money when you're getting started usually buying a rental property is
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usually buying a rental property is
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usually buying a rental property is going to put you in a position where you
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going to put you in a position where you
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going to put you in a position where you might be uh not not profitable for a
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might be uh not not profitable for a
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might be uh not not profitable for a couple of years and we ran into that and
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couple of years and we ran into that and
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couple of years and we ran into that and actually the first few rental properties
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actually the first few rental properties
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actually the first few rental properties I bought I was in a position where uh it
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I bought I was in a position where uh it
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I bought I was in a position where uh it was actually more difficult from a
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was actually more difficult from a
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was actually more difficult from a Cashflow perspective after buying them
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Cashflow perspective after buying them
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Cashflow perspective after buying them of course I didn't really listen to what
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of course I didn't really listen to what
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of course I didn't really listen to what Robert kosaki said in his books on that
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Robert kosaki said in his books on that
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Robert kosaki said in his books on that one but uh uh I tried and then uh but
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one but uh uh I tried and then uh but
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one but uh uh I tried and then uh but eventually things turned and I had the
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eventually things turned and I had the
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eventually things turned and I had the saying that like with real estate uh
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saying that like with real estate uh
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saying that like with real estate uh time heals all mistakes and uh as long
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time heals all mistakes and uh as long
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time heals all mistakes and uh as long as you can survive for that amount of
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as you can survive for that amount of
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as you can survive for that amount of time and I think today uh I I'm at the
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time and I think today uh I I'm at the
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time and I think today uh I I'm at the point where I've got a handful of rental
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point where I've got a handful of rental
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point where I've got a handful of rental properties and some of them are are
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properties and some of them are are
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properties and some of them are are doing better than others and but it's
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doing better than others and but it's
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doing better than others and but it's something that I look at that as my way
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something that I look at that as my way
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something that I look at that as my way to get to retirement one day is to buy
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to get to retirement one day is to buy
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to get to retirement one day is to buy more of those and I think that uh that's
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more of those and I think that uh that's
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more of those and I think that uh that's one of those things that I would really
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one of those things that I would really
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one of those things that I would really encourage people to do when they're
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encourage people to do when they're
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encourage people to do when they're younger is is get into a rental property
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younger is is get into a rental property
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younger is is get into a rental property if you can you know and I think that I
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if you can you know and I think that I
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if you can you know and I think that I mean my son's what 25 and 27 years old
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mean my son's what 25 and 27 years old
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mean my son's what 25 and 27 years old my two boys are now and uh they're at
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my two boys are now and uh they're at
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my two boys are now and uh they're at the point where you you talk with them
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the point where you you talk with them
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the point where you you talk with them and you do the math and figure out what
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and you do the math and figure out what
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and you do the math and figure out what it would take to get a house and they're
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it would take to get a house and they're
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it would take to get a house and they're they're making good money but it's tough
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they're making good money but it's tough
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they're making good money but it's tough to get started with that first house but
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to get started with that first house but
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to get started with that first house but once you get that first house down I
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once you get that first house down I
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once you get that first house down I mean then it's easier to go forward
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mean then it's easier to go forward
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mean then it's easier to go forward after that yes and I think yeah yeah in
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after that yes and I think yeah yeah in
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after that yes and I think yeah yeah in America even buying a house is getting
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America even buying a house is getting
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America even buying a house is getting harder and harder right and uh
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harder and harder right and uh
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harder and harder right and uh you know so many young people now don't
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you know so many young people now don't
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you know so many young people now don't have the means to buy a house you know I
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have the means to buy a house you know I
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have the means to buy a house you know I you know you know people that are the
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you know you know people that are the
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you know you know people that are the same age when I bought my first home
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same age when I bought my first home
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same age when I bought my first home they can't afford it you know they're
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they can't afford it you know they're
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they can't afford it you know they're moving in back in with their parents and
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moving in back in with their parents and
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moving in back in with their parents and stuff and it's tough and so we have to
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stuff and it's tough and so we have to
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stuff and it's tough and so we have to you have to plan for this right yep
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you have to plan for this right yep
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you have to plan for this right yep absolutely and then but the flip side of
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absolutely and then but the flip side of
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absolutely and then but the flip side of it is rents are getting so high now yes
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it is rents are getting so high now yes
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it is rents are getting so high now yes you could almost say people can't afford
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you could almost say people can't afford
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you could almost say people can't afford to not buy yeah because and and I guess
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to not buy yeah because and and I guess
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to not buy yeah because and and I guess that varies a lot too on the time and
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that varies a lot too on the time and
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that varies a lot too on the time and the interest rates and things like that
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the interest rates and things like that
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the interest rates and things like that I mean interest rates have been high the
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I mean interest rates have been high the
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I mean interest rates have been high the last couple years yes but if they turn
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last couple years yes but if they turn
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last couple years yes but if they turn around and come back down I mean that's
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around and come back down I mean that's
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around and come back down I mean that's the time to look at how do you get into
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the time to look at how do you get into
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the time to look at how do you get into that first house right and I think that
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that first house right and I think that
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that first house right and I think that uh for me that's that's been a good
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uh for me that's that's been a good
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uh for me that's that's been a good long-term investment uh and hopefully by
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long-term investment uh and hopefully by
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long-term investment uh and hopefully by the time I retire uh I'll be at the
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the time I retire uh I'll be at the
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the time I retire uh I'll be at the point that I don't have a fixed income
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point that I don't have a fixed income
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point that I don't have a fixed income that I have enough rental income for the
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that I have enough rental income for the
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that I have enough rental income for the long term that I can continue whatever
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long term that I can continue whatever
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long term that I can continue whatever lifestyle I have today if not better
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lifestyle I have today if not better
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lifestyle I have today if not better going forward rather than having to cut
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going forward rather than having to cut
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going forward rather than having to cut back yeah uh the other side of it is
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back yeah uh the other side of it is
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back yeah uh the other side of it is looking
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looking at planning and kind of planning for
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at planning and kind of planning for
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at planning and kind of planning for when things go wrong and you know we're
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when things go wrong and you know we're
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when things go wrong and you know we're all gonna going through our careers
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all gonna going through our careers
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all gonna going through our careers going through life we're all gonna make
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going through life we're all gonna make
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going through life we're all gonna make mistakes and there's going to be points
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mistakes and there's going to be points
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mistakes and there's going to be points in time where you get stuck with some
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in time where you get stuck with some
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in time where you get stuck with some Financial issue that you've got to come
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Financial issue that you've got to come
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Financial issue that you've got to come up with some cash right now and a lot of
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up with some cash right now and a lot of
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up with some cash right now and a lot of the times you end up putting that a
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the times you end up putting that a
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the times you end up putting that a credit card a lot of people do and a lot
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credit card a lot of people do and a lot
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credit card a lot of people do and a lot of the times that gets to the point that
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of the times that gets to the point that
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of the times that gets to the point that um couple of those happen and suddenly
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um couple of those happen and suddenly
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um couple of those happen and suddenly you've got4 or $50,000 on credit cards
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you've got4 or $50,000 on credit cards
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you've got4 or $50,000 on credit cards and you're you're you're in a world of
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and you're you're you're in a world of
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and you're you're you're in a world of hurt at that point I mean when I was
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hurt at that point I mean when I was
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hurt at that point I mean when I was about 30 I think I had 50 or $60,000 on
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about 30 I think I had 50 or $60,000 on
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about 30 I think I had 50 or $60,000 on credit cards for mistakes I'd made and I
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credit cards for mistakes I'd made and I
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credit cards for mistakes I'd made and I worked with that uh I became uh so
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worked with that uh I became uh so
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worked with that uh I became uh so averse to debt to credit card debt that
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averse to debt to credit card debt that
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averse to debt to credit card debt that today if I have a credit card charge
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today if I have a credit card charge
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today if I have a credit card charge that sits more than two or three days on
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that sits more than two or three days on
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that sits more than two or three days on my crit on my card before I pay it off
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my crit on my card before I pay it off
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my crit on my card before I pay it off I'm I go into panic mode almost yeah
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I'm I go into panic mode almost yeah
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I'm I go into panic mode almost yeah well you know I had the same issue that
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well you know I had the same issue that
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well you know I had the same issue that you went through and uh actually I I
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you went through and uh actually I I
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you went through and uh actually I I still think I owe some money if they
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still think I owe some money if they
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still think I owe some money if they ever catch up with me but you know
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ever catch up with me but you know
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ever catch up with me but you know um uh you know one thing that I because
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um uh you know one thing that I because
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um uh you know one thing that I because I tend to learn things the hard way you
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I tend to learn things the hard way you
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I tend to learn things the hard way you know I got into that and I haven't had
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know I got into that and I haven't had
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know I got into that and I haven't had credit card in I don't know 10 or 15
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credit card in I don't know 10 or 15
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credit card in I don't know 10 or 15 years I think I haven't had a credit
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years I think I haven't had a credit
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years I think I haven't had a credit card I I won't you learned yeah I
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card I I won't you learned yeah I
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card I I won't you learned yeah I learned I got rid of them you know
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learned I got rid of them you know
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learned I got rid of them you know they're they're way too easy to say oh
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they're they're way too easy to say oh
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they're they're way too easy to say oh yeah I'll pay that off next month or
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yeah I'll pay that off next month or
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yeah I'll pay that off next month or whatever and then like you said stuff
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whatever and then like you said stuff
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whatever and then like you said stuff happens right and so you know one of the
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happens right and so you know one of the
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happens right and so you know one of the things you know I didn't plan on talking
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things you know I didn't plan on talking
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things you know I didn't plan on talking about today but live within your means
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about today but live within your means
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about today but live within your means right you know y if you if you can't
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right you know y if you if you can't
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right you know y if you if you can't afford to pay cash to go see Taylor
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afford to pay cash to go see Taylor
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afford to pay cash to go see Taylor Swift maybe you shouldn't be going right
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Swift maybe you shouldn't be going right
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Swift maybe you shouldn't be going right right and you know stuff like that you
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right and you know stuff like that you
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right and you know stuff like that you know it's not that's not that important
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know it's not that's not that important
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know it's not that's not that important right but I think it's one of the things
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right but I think it's one of the things
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right but I think it's one of the things that uh Dave Dave Ramsey he's one of the
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that uh Dave Dave Ramsey he's one of the
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that uh Dave Dave Ramsey he's one of the uh uh investment or columnist or he has
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uh uh investment or columnist or he has
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uh uh investment or columnist or he has a radio show he he always talks about
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a radio show he he always talks about
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a radio show he he always talks about living within your means right so that
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living within your means right so that
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living within your means right so that you can live beyond your means down the
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you can live beyond your means down the
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you can live beyond your means down the road and I think I mean I made that
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road and I think I mean I made that
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road and I think I mean I made that mistake early on I mean I got my first
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mistake early on I mean I got my first
24:48
mistake early on I mean I got my first tech job and I was making more money
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tech job and I was making more money
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tech job and I was making more money than I knew what to do with at the point
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than I knew what to do with at the point
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than I knew what to do with at the point in time yeah and then you go buy a new
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in time yeah and then you go buy a new
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in time yeah and then you go buy a new vehicle and finance it and then you go
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vehicle and finance it and then you go
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vehicle and finance it and then you go put charge too much on credit cards and
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put charge too much on credit cards and
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put charge too much on credit cards and suddenly you realize a really big
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suddenly you realize a really big
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suddenly you realize a really big percentage of your income is going to
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percentage of your income is going to
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percentage of your income is going to just pay off debt at that point yeah and
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just pay off debt at that point yeah and
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just pay off debt at that point yeah and that's where for me to get to the
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that's where for me to get to the
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that's where for me to get to the longterm to one day retire I have to
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longterm to one day retire I have to
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longterm to one day retire I have to categorize everything into two
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categorize everything into two
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categorize everything into two categories of what's good debt and
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categories of what's good debt and
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categories of what's good debt and what's bad debt and good debt in my
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what's bad debt and good debt in my
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what's bad debt and good debt in my opinion is debt that makes you money uh
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opinion is debt that makes you money uh
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opinion is debt that makes you money uh a mortgage on a rental property that you
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a mortgage on a rental property that you
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a mortgage on a rental property that you might be paying X but you're making X
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might be paying X but you're making X
25:25
might be paying X but you're making X Plus 10% off of it right uh where bad
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Plus 10% off of it right uh where bad
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Plus 10% off of it right uh where bad debt is when you're buying toys boats uh
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debt is when you're buying toys boats uh
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debt is when you're buying toys boats uh skis uh yeah things toys like that you
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skis uh yeah things toys like that you
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skis uh yeah things toys like that you know stuff that uh doesn't make you
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know stuff that uh doesn't make you
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know stuff that uh doesn't make you money that now I'm not saying you
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money that now I'm not saying you
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money that now I'm not saying you shouldn't do those things sure but you
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shouldn't do those things sure but you
25:42
shouldn't do those things sure but you should do those things
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should do those things
25:45
should do those things within what uh what you can afford yes
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within what uh what you can afford yes
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within what uh what you can afford yes and and keep it to the point that uh
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and and keep it to the point that uh
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and and keep it to the point that uh yeah and my rule is if I'm going to buy
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yeah and my rule is if I'm going to buy
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yeah and my rule is if I'm going to buy a
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a toy meaning anything that
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toy meaning anything that
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toy meaning anything that uh I I guess if I'm going to buy
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uh I I guess if I'm going to buy
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uh I I guess if I'm going to buy anything that is not an investment
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anything that is not an investment
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anything that is not an investment that's going to make me money I don't
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that's going to make me money I don't
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that's going to make me money I don't want to use debt at all right yeah and I
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want to use debt at all right yeah and I
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want to use debt at all right yeah and I mean I'm car loans I'm afraid I stay
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mean I'm car loans I'm afraid I stay
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mean I'm car loans I'm afraid I stay away from
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away from those and what what that meant was that
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those and what what that meant was that
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those and what what that meant was that I went from a lifestyle where I had a
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I went from a lifestyle where I had a
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I went from a lifestyle where I had a new vehicle every four or five years to
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new vehicle every four or five years to
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new vehicle every four or five years to now for a while I was driving a 15y old
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now for a while I was driving a 15y old
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now for a while I was driving a 15y old vehicle you know but it was paid for
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vehicle you know but it was paid for
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vehicle you know but it was paid for right and then
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right and then uh I upgraded and next I'm driving a
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uh I upgraded and next I'm driving a
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uh I upgraded and next I'm driving a 10-year-old vehicle but it's paid for
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10-year-old vehicle but it's paid for
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10-year-old vehicle but it's paid for and uh you don't always have to have
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and uh you don't always have to have
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and uh you don't always have to have that that newest vehicle and I think
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that that newest vehicle and I think
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that that newest vehicle and I think that I mean one of the guys I work with
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that I mean one of the guys I work with
26:41
that I mean one of the guys I work with almost lost almost went bankrupt because
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almost lost almost went bankrupt because
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almost lost almost went bankrupt because of too much spending like that yeah and
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of too much spending like that yeah and
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of too much spending like that yeah and we were able to work together and that's
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we were able to work together and that's
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we were able to work together and that's one of the things I really enjoy is
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one of the things I really enjoy is
26:47
one of the things I really enjoy is working with people like team members in
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working with people like team members in
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working with people like team members in order to kind of help them understand
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order to kind of help them understand
26:53
order to kind of help them understand these things earlier on in their career
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these things earlier on in their career
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these things earlier on in their career yeah I know I saw uh something about
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yeah I know I saw uh something about
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yeah I know I saw uh something about uh Henry Ford when he first started the
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uh Henry Ford when he first started the
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uh Henry Ford when he first started the Ford Company making cars what 100 years
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Ford Company making cars what 100 years
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Ford Company making cars what 100 years ago now roughly uh one of the things he
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ago now roughly uh one of the things he
27:06
ago now roughly uh one of the things he did
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did was he worked with his employees he
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was he worked with his employees he
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was he worked with his employees he worked with his team members to help
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worked with his team members to help
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worked with his team members to help educate them so that they would be
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educate them so that they would be
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educate them so that they would be stronger in their financial backgrounds
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stronger in their financial backgrounds
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stronger in their financial backgrounds not just to be good employees but to
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not just to be good employees but to
27:19
not just to be good employees but to also be uh Stronger financially and
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also be uh Stronger financially and
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also be uh Stronger financially and that's one of the things I like to do
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that's one of the things I like to do
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that's one of the things I like to do and just being able to see how people
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and just being able to see how people
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and just being able to see how people can improve or change
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can improve or change
27:28
can improve or change they're basically change their way of
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they're basically change their way of
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they're basically change their way of living to a point that they're not
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living to a point that they're not
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living to a point that they're not digging a hole of disparity every day
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digging a hole of disparity every day
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digging a hole of disparity every day yeah yeah and and you know um it and
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yeah yeah and and you know um it and
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yeah yeah and and you know um it and it's really hard because you know you
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it's really hard because you know you
27:42
it's really hard because you know you know I can't speak for every country but
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know I can't speak for every country but
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know I can't speak for every country but you know in America we're bombarded
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you know in America we're bombarded
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you know in America we're bombarded constantly to to spend money we don't
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constantly to to spend money we don't
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constantly to to spend money we don't have right oh yeah 90 days same as cash
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have right oh yeah 90 days same as cash
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have right oh yeah 90 days same as cash right yeah or it's every commercial is
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right yeah or it's every commercial is
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right yeah or it's every commercial is is trying to sell you
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is trying to sell you
27:58
is trying to sell you crap you don't need you know to me
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crap you don't need you know to me
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crap you don't need you know to me pretty much every single commercial on
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pretty much every single commercial on
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pretty much every single commercial on TV is stuff you don't need right and and
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TV is stuff you don't need right and and
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TV is stuff you don't need right and and and you know the reason you see those
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and you know the reason you see those
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and you know the reason you see those commercials at every commercial break is
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commercials at every commercial break is
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commercials at every commercial break is because you don't need it and they're
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because you don't need it and they're
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because you don't need it and they're trying to convince you to need it right
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trying to convince you to need it right
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trying to convince you to need it right and so um you know one thing that I've
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and so um you know one thing that I've
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and so um you know one thing that I've been doing for a long time and so to
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been doing for a long time and so to
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been doing for a long time and so to back up a little bit I've never been
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back up a little bit I've never been
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back up a little bit I've never been super materialistic I've never been big
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super materialistic I've never been big
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super materialistic I've never been big into toys I I've never had a boat you
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into toys I I've never had a boat you
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into toys I I've never had a boat you you know I've never none of that stuff
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you know I've never none of that stuff
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you know I've never none of that stuff right I always I never had a super fancy
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right I always I never had a super fancy
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right I always I never had a super fancy car I had one that's nice and gets me
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car I had one that's nice and gets me
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car I had one that's nice and gets me around right I don't need you know a
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around right I don't need you know a
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around right I don't need you know a $100,000 car or even a $40,000 car right
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$100,000 car or even a $40,000 car right
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$100,000 car or even a $40,000 car right yep and
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yep and um and um so so one thing that I do and
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um and um so so one thing that I do and
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um and um so so one thing that I do and it doesn't matter you know if it's you
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it doesn't matter you know if it's you
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it doesn't matter you know if it's you know a new cam piece of camera gear
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know a new cam piece of camera gear
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know a new cam piece of camera gear because I'm a photographer or even a new
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because I'm a photographer or even a new
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because I'm a photographer or even a new guitar I you know yeah I want things but
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guitar I you know yeah I want things but
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guitar I you know yeah I want things but then I stop and say okay I need to
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then I stop and say okay I need to
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then I stop and say okay I need to justify this besides just wanting a cool
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justify this besides just wanting a cool
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justify this besides just wanting a cool guitar right you want am I going to use
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guitar right you want am I going to use
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guitar right you want am I going to use it for when am I going to use it and if
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it for when am I going to use it and if
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it for when am I going to use it and if it's just for me then maybe I should
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it's just for me then maybe I should
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it's just for me then maybe I should just hold off you know and and wait and
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just hold off you know and and wait and
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just hold off you know and and wait and get something that I really need if I'm
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get something that I really need if I'm
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get something that I really need if I'm going to be playing out with a band or
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going to be playing out with a band or
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going to be playing out with a band or something like that right so um and even
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something like that right so um and even
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something like that right so um and even computers I don't I'm down to three
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computers I don't I'm down to three
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computers I don't I'm down to three computers now which sounds like a lot to
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computers now which sounds like a lot to
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computers now which sounds like a lot to some people but you know I used to have
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some people but you know I used to have
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some people but you know I used to have like five or six Compu Compu in my house
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like five or six Compu Compu in my house
29:29
like five or six Compu Compu in my house right and um and the question on that
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right and um and the question on that
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right and um and the question on that really comes down to are those things
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really comes down to are those things
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really comes down to are those things you you have to own because they're
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you you have to own because they're
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you you have to own because they're going to help you with your job or help
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going to help you with your job or help
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going to help you with your job or help you make money or something like that
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you make money or something like that
29:39
you make money or something like that versus are they just a bunch of toys
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versus are they just a bunch of toys
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versus are they just a bunch of toys right and I think too often I've fallen
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right and I think too often I've fallen
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right and I think too often I've fallen into the too many toys category over the
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into the too many toys category over the
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into the too many toys category over the years as well and I think that um I
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years as well and I think that um I
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years as well and I think that um I guess one of the major turning points
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guess one of the major turning points
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guess one of the major turning points for me was
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for me was uh nine years
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uh nine years ago uh I was working as I guess my title
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ago uh I was working as I guess my title
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ago uh I was working as I guess my title changed about six times in six years
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changed about six times in six years
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changed about six times in six years when I worked for that company but I was
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when I worked for that company but I was
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when I worked for that company but I was working as the chief technology officer
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working as the chief technology officer
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working as the chief technology officer for a company and uh I got let go I it
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for a company and uh I got let go I it
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for a company and uh I got let go I it was a layoff of one they called it and
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was a layoff of one they called it and
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was a layoff of one they called it and lay off of one yeah never heard that
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lay off of one yeah never heard that
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lay off of one yeah never heard that before well they wanted to call the
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before well they wanted to call the
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before well they wanted to call the layoff because they didn't they couldn't
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layoff because they didn't they couldn't
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layoff because they didn't they couldn't admit that they wanted to fire me
30:21
admit that they wanted to fire me
30:21
admit that they wanted to fire me because I didn't really fit into their
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because I didn't really fit into their
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because I didn't really fit into their mold very well you know yeah uh and I I
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mold very well you know yeah uh and I I
30:25
mold very well you know yeah uh and I I at that point I found out well you know
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at that point I found out well you know
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at that point I found out well you know I'm not a very good employee I'm really
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I'm not a very good employee I'm really
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I'm not a very good employee I'm really more of an entrepreneur or business
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more of an entrepreneur or business
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more of an entrepreneur or business person rather than uh so I went and
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person rather than uh so I went and
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person rather than uh so I went and started my own company and the thing I
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started my own company and the thing I
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started my own company and the thing I learned was never start your own
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learned was never start your own
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learned was never start your own business and announce it on April 1
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business and announce it on April 1
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business and announce it on April 1 because April Fool's Day everybody
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because April Fool's Day everybody
30:40
because April Fool's Day everybody thinks it's a joke so even if you have
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thinks it's a joke so even if you have
30:42
thinks it's a joke so even if you have to delay a day don't do it on April 1
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to delay a day don't do it on April 1
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to delay a day don't do it on April 1 but yeah uh I've been going for nine
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but yeah uh I've been going for nine
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but yeah uh I've been going for nine years and for me that was a GameChanger
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years and for me that was a GameChanger
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years and for me that was a GameChanger going into business for myself now it
30:51
going into business for myself now it
30:51
going into business for myself now it was my second time trying it because 10
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was my second time trying it because 10
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was my second time trying it because 10 years before I tried to do that and I
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years before I tried to do that and I
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years before I tried to do that and I failed horribly because I didn't know
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failed horribly because I didn't know
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failed horribly because I didn't know what I was doing but
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what I was doing but
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what I was doing but uh nine years later uh stemman Solutions
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uh nine years later uh stemman Solutions
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uh nine years later uh stemman Solutions now has 10
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now has 10 employees wow and we're doing a whole
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employees wow and we're doing a whole
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employees wow and we're doing a whole lot of work with SQL server and to the
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lot of work with SQL server and to the
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lot of work with SQL server and to the point that we're probably going to be
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point that we're probably going to be
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point that we're probably going to be looking at maybe adding a couple more in
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looking at maybe adding a couple more in
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looking at maybe adding a couple more in the next year so I that but what what
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the next year so I that but what what
31:15
the next year so I that but what what was a changer on that was getting in the
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was a changer on that was getting in the
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was a changer on that was getting in the position where I could be the business
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position where I could be the business
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position where I could be the business owner rather than just the employee
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owner rather than just the employee
31:22
owner rather than just the employee working for some big Corporation was
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working for some big Corporation was
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working for some big Corporation was that it put me in the driver seat I had
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that it put me in the driver seat I had
31:25
that it put me in the driver seat I had a lot more control over my future I had
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a lot more control over my future I had
31:28
a lot more control over my future I had a lot more control over what you could
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a lot more control over what you could
31:29
a lot more control over what you could do with taxes over I mean even things
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do with taxes over I mean even things
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do with taxes over I mean even things like that lap that pile of computers you
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like that lap that pile of computers you
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like that lap that pile of computers you bought six computers whatever it may be
31:36
bought six computers whatever it may be
31:36
bought six computers whatever it may be well those are being used for business
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well those are being used for business
31:39
well those are being used for business then they're a business expense rather
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then they're a business expense rather
31:40
then they're a business expense rather than if you're buying them just to help
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than if you're buying them just to help
31:42
than if you're buying them just to help your employer they're not necessarily a
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your employer they're not necessarily a
31:44
your employer they're not necessarily a business expense at that point exactly
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business expense at that point exactly
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business expense at that point exactly yeah yeah but you know uh so you brought
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yeah yeah but you know uh so you brought
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yeah yeah but you know uh so you brought up something that I wanted to to talk a
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up something that I wanted to to talk a
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up something that I wanted to to talk a little bit about today because um I
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little bit about today because um I
31:54
little bit about today because um I don't think I'm going to have the chance
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don't think I'm going to have the chance
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don't think I'm going to have the chance in September and that is so a long time
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in September and that is so a long time
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in September and that is so a long time ago when I was uh interested in going
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ago when I was uh interested in going
32:01
ago when I was uh interested in going Consulting you know one of my Consulting
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Consulting you know one of my Consulting
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Consulting you know one of my Consulting friends um said to me well if you're
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friends um said to me well if you're
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friends um said to me well if you're going to do Consulting then you have to
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going to do Consulting then you have to
32:07
going to do Consulting then you have to have at least three months of cash in
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have at least three months of cash in
32:10
have at least three months of cash in the bank to to live right and um and uh
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the bank to to live right and um and uh
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the bank to to live right and um and uh so I've been through this unfortunately
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so I've been through this unfortunately
32:19
so I've been through this unfortunately you know a bunch of times now since I've
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you know a bunch of times now since I've
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you know a bunch of times now since I've been mostly Consulting since 2012 and uh
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been mostly Consulting since 2012 and uh
32:25
been mostly Consulting since 2012 and uh I I could tell you that should be at
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I I could tell you that should be at
32:26
I I could tell you that should be at least six months you know and it doesn't
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least six months you know and it doesn't
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least six months you know and it doesn't matter if you're insulting or not to me
32:30
matter if you're insulting or not to me
32:30
matter if you're insulting or not to me because you know I I've seen ups and
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because you know I I've seen ups and
32:33
because you know I I've seen ups and downs in this care in this industry you
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downs in this care in this industry you
32:36
downs in this care in this industry you know and and you never know when you're
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know and and you never know when you're
32:39
know and and you never know when you're going to walk in one day and your job is
32:42
going to walk in one day and your job is
32:42
going to walk in one day and your job is gone right yep and and if you don't have
32:45
gone right yep and and if you don't have
32:45
gone right yep and and if you don't have any if you're living pay to paycheck to
32:47
any if you're living pay to paycheck to
32:47
any if you're living pay to paycheck to paycheck you're screwed basically right
32:51
paycheck you're screwed basically right
32:51
paycheck you're screwed basically right and if you haven't kept up your
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and if you haven't kept up your
32:53
and if you haven't kept up your connections you know like with
32:55
connections you know like with
32:55
connections you know like with recruiters and things like that it's
32:56
recruiters and things like that it's
32:56
recruiters and things like that it's going to take a long time time for you
32:58
going to take a long time time for you
32:58
going to take a long time time for you to find a new job and uh so I I would
33:02
to find a new job and uh so I I would
33:02
to find a new job and uh so I I would say I don't know if you agree but I
33:03
say I don't know if you agree but I
33:03
say I don't know if you agree but I would say you have to have at least six
33:05
would say you have to have at least six
33:05
would say you have to have at least six months of operating capital in your bank
33:07
months of operating capital in your bank
33:07
months of operating capital in your bank at all times right for call it the rainy
33:10
at all times right for call it the rainy
33:10
at all times right for call it the rainy day fund right because you it's almost
33:14
day fund right because you it's almost
33:14
day fund right because you it's almost inevitable you're going to be laid off
33:16
inevitable you're going to be laid off
33:16
inevitable you're going to be laid off yeah I I'm I should do a poll if youve
33:18
yeah I I'm I should do a poll if youve
33:18
yeah I I'm I should do a poll if youve ever been laid off and I I bet you the
33:20
ever been laid off and I I bet you the
33:20
ever been laid off and I I bet you the majority of the people have been right
33:23
majority of the people have been right
33:23
majority of the people have been right and that's a good point yeah and the
33:25
and that's a good point yeah and the
33:25
and that's a good point yeah and the other thing that I've found out the hard
33:27
other thing that I've found out the hard
33:27
other thing that I've found out the hard way is unemployment runs out so so what
33:31
way is unemployment runs out so so what
33:31
way is unemployment runs out so so what are you going to do when unemployment
33:32
are you going to do when unemployment
33:32
are you going to do when unemployment runs out yeah right and also I mean
33:35
runs out yeah right and also I mean
33:35
runs out yeah right and also I mean unemployment isn't even that great oh
33:38
unemployment isn't even that great oh
33:38
unemployment isn't even that great oh it's not it doesn't even pay my mortgage
33:40
it's not it doesn't even pay my mortgage
33:40
it's not it doesn't even pay my mortgage right but it helps but it it but it runs
33:43
right but it helps but it it but it runs
33:43
right but it helps but it it but it runs out it dries up you know because I
33:46
out it dries up you know because I
33:46
out it dries up you know because I didn't never realize until now that we
33:48
didn't never realize until now that we
33:48
didn't never realize until now that we pay into it and when we use it it's gone
33:52
pay into it and when we use it it's gone
33:52
pay into it and when we use it it's gone right yep so with that I I completely
33:55
right yep so with that I I completely
33:55
right yep so with that I I completely agree with your six months number six
33:56
agree with your six months number six
33:56
agree with your six months number six months of expenses now that doesn't have
33:58
months of expenses now that doesn't have
33:58
months of expenses now that doesn't have to be six months of what you would need
34:00
to be six months of what you would need
34:00
to be six months of what you would need to be going on vacation and stuff like
34:02
to be going on vacation and stuff like
34:02
to be going on vacation and stuff like that six months of survival money and
34:05
that six months of survival money and
34:05
that six months of survival money and what it would take to get by if you lost
34:07
what it would take to get by if you lost
34:07
what it would take to get by if you lost all of your income and I think that uh
34:10
all of your income and I think that uh
34:10
all of your income and I think that uh yeah as a consultant I yeah absolutely
34:13
yeah as a consultant I yeah absolutely
34:13
yeah as a consultant I yeah absolutely agree with that but you know honestly as
34:15
agree with that but you know honestly as
34:15
agree with that but you know honestly as an employee I think it makes just as
34:18
an employee I think it makes just as
34:18
an employee I think it makes just as much sense too yeah does uh and it's
34:21
much sense too yeah does uh and it's
34:21
much sense too yeah does uh and it's almost like the bigger the company the
34:22
almost like the bigger the company the
34:22
almost like the bigger the company the more risk risk you have of maybe a whole
34:25
more risk risk you have of maybe a whole
34:25
more risk risk you have of maybe a whole division being laid off or something
34:26
division being laid off or something
34:26
division being laid off or something like that I mean it happens constantly
34:28
like that I mean it happens constantly
34:28
like that I mean it happens constantly at Microsoft and other companies right
34:29
at Microsoft and other companies right
34:29
at Microsoft and other companies right it always happens I work for a company
34:32
it always happens I work for a company
34:32
it always happens I work for a company gosh years ago they had I think about
34:34
gosh years ago they had I think about
34:34
gosh years ago they had I think about 900 employees and they laid off about
34:37
900 employees and they laid off about
34:37
900 employees and they laid off about 700 750 of them in one day when they
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700 750 of them in one day when they
34:41
700 750 of them in one day when they when the company sold and they didn't
34:42
when the company sold and they didn't
34:42
when the company sold and they didn't want all these employees and it was one
34:44
want all these employees and it was one
34:45
want all these employees and it was one of those where everybody thought
34:45
of those where everybody thought
34:46
of those where everybody thought everything was great and then suddenly
34:47
everything was great and then suddenly
34:47
everything was great and then suddenly about 750 out of 900 were unemployed
34:51
about 750 out of 900 were unemployed
34:51
about 750 out of 900 were unemployed yeah and I think that it was fear and
34:54
yeah and I think that it was fear and
34:54
yeah and I think that it was fear and panic at that point with the team
34:56
panic at that point with the team
34:56
panic at that point with the team members and people I knew that's where
34:58
members and people I knew that's where
34:58
members and people I knew that's where if you could have that buffer and that
35:00
if you could have that buffer and that
35:00
if you could have that buffer and that six months doesn't all have to be cash
35:01
six months doesn't all have to be cash
35:01
six months doesn't all have to be cash in a savings account I mean it can be in
35:03
in a savings account I mean it can be in
35:03
in a savings account I mean it can be in CDs or it can be in other things that
35:05
CDs or it can be in other things that
35:05
CDs or it can be in other things that right you can get to within that six
35:07
right you can get to within that six
35:07
right you can get to within that six months if you need it right but um yeah
35:10
months if you need it right but um yeah
35:10
months if you need it right but um yeah having that really changes a perspective
35:12
having that really changes a perspective
35:12
having that really changes a perspective on on life meaning that if that did
35:16
on on life meaning that if that did
35:16
on on life meaning that if that did happen it's not the end of the world
35:17
happen it's not the end of the world
35:17
happen it's not the end of the world tomorrow right so right the the other
35:20
tomorrow right so right the the other
35:20
tomorrow right so right the the other thing that I learned in doing that and
35:22
thing that I learned in doing that and
35:22
thing that I learned in doing that and running my business was uh the first
35:24
running my business was uh the first
35:24
running my business was uh the first time that I went into
35:26
time that I went into
35:26
time that I went into Consulting uh when I failed I basically
35:29
Consulting uh when I failed I basically
35:29
Consulting uh when I failed I basically got one client that became big and
35:31
got one client that became big and
35:31
got one client that became big and squashed all my other clients on my time
35:35
squashed all my other clients on my time
35:35
squashed all my other clients on my time and then that one client came to an end
35:37
and then that one client came to an end
35:37
and then that one client came to an end and you're no different than having a
35:38
and you're no different than having a
35:38
and you're no different than having a having a full-time job at that point
35:40
having a full-time job at that point
35:40
having a full-time job at that point when you lose your job so I I made the
35:42
when you lose your job so I I made the
35:42
when you lose your job so I I made the rule in my Consulting practice that I
35:44
rule in my Consulting practice that I
35:44
rule in my Consulting practice that I would never have uh more than 25% of my
35:48
would never have uh more than 25% of my
35:48
would never have uh more than 25% of my income coming from any one client yeah
35:51
income coming from any one client yeah
35:51
income coming from any one client yeah and yeah I've violated it a couple times
35:53
and yeah I've violated it a couple times
35:53
and yeah I've violated it a couple times with a little bit here and there on like
35:55
with a little bit here and there on like
35:55
with a little bit here and there on like for short term but generally I try and
35:57
for short term but generally I try and
35:57
for short term but generally I try and spread it out so that if something does
35:59
spread it out so that if something does
35:59
spread it out so that if something does go bad hopefully it doesn't go bad with
36:01
go bad hopefully it doesn't go bad with
36:01
go bad hopefully it doesn't go bad with all the clients it just maybe goes bad
36:02
all the clients it just maybe goes bad
36:02
all the clients it just maybe goes bad with one and that helps reduce the risk
36:06
with one and that helps reduce the risk
36:06
with one and that helps reduce the risk there a little bit as well I've worked
36:08
there a little bit as well I've worked
36:08
there a little bit as well I've worked for uh Consulting companies that did
36:10
for uh Consulting companies that did
36:10
for uh Consulting companies that did exactly what you did the first time
36:12
exactly what you did the first time
36:12
exactly what you did the first time right and I even I even warned them
36:15
right and I even I even warned them
36:15
right and I even I even warned them going look we we can't have everything
36:18
going look we we can't have everything
36:19
going look we we can't have everything we can't have all of the income coming
36:20
we can't have all of the income coming
36:20
we can't have all of the income coming from Microsoft because I know what
36:22
from Microsoft because I know what
36:22
from Microsoft because I know what happens every five years of Microsoft
36:24
happens every five years of Microsoft
36:24
happens every five years of Microsoft they do a reorg and everything goes to
36:27
they do a reorg and everything goes to
36:27
they do a reorg and everything goes to right o sorry Simon and uh and and
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right o sorry Simon and uh and and
36:31
right o sorry Simon and uh and and you're left and that's exactly what
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you're left and that's exactly what
36:32
you're left and that's exactly what happened to the company right what I
36:35
happened to the company right what I
36:35
happened to the company right what I told them was going to happen happened
36:37
told them was going to happen happened
36:37
told them was going to happen happened right because I've seen this over and
36:38
right because I've seen this over and
36:38
right because I've seen this over and over again and and yeah you're
36:41
over again and and yeah you're
36:41
over again and and yeah you're completely right you have to have more
36:43
completely right you have to have more
36:43
completely right you have to have more eggs in the basket right yep so I think
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eggs in the basket right yep so I think
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eggs in the basket right yep so I think one of the keys in getting to retirement
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one of the keys in getting to retirement
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one of the keys in getting to retirement one day is being able
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one day is being able
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one day is being able to understand where you're at I mean a
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to understand where you're at I mean a
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to understand where you're at I mean a lot of people don't even know where
36:57
lot of people don't even know where
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lot of people don't even know where they're at far away they are or if they
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they're at far away they are or if they
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they're at far away they are or if they if if they could or couldn't retire and
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if if they could or couldn't retire and
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if if they could or couldn't retire and uh so one of the things I started doing
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uh so one of the things I started doing
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uh so one of the things I started doing in 2012 was I put together a
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in 2012 was I put together a
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in 2012 was I put together a spreadsheet and in there I tracked a
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spreadsheet and in there I tracked a
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spreadsheet and in there I tracked a number of of uh data points basically
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number of of uh data points basically
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number of of uh data points basically and maybe I'm too much of a database guy
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and maybe I'm too much of a database guy
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and maybe I'm too much of a database guy is why I put it together this way but uh
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is why I put it together this way but uh
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is why I put it together this way but uh basically tracking overall net worth
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basically tracking overall net worth
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basically tracking overall net worth basically what are all your assets minus
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basically what are all your assets minus
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basically what are all your assets minus what are all your
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what are all your liabilities and being able to see that
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liabilities and being able to see that
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liabilities and being able to see that number grow and if you on a
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number grow and if you on a
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number grow and if you on a month-to-month basis just record that
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month-to-month basis just record that
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month-to-month basis just record that and if you see it go negative then you
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and if you see it go negative then you
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and if you see it go negative then you got to look at well what did I do this
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got to look at well what did I do this
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got to look at well what did I do this month was this a one-off event that I'm
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month was this a one-off event that I'm
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month was this a one-off event that I'm going to fix next month or are we
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going to fix next month or are we
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going to fix next month or are we trending in the negative right and if
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trending in the negative right and if
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trending in the negative right and if that's happening then that's putting you
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that's happening then that's putting you
37:39
that's happening then that's putting you further away from retirement at that
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further away from retirement at that
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further away from retirement at that point yeah if it's growing it's putting
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point yeah if it's growing it's putting
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point yeah if it's growing it's putting you closer to retirement every day and
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you closer to retirement every day and
37:45
you closer to retirement every day and then what is the overall monthly cash
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then what is the overall monthly cash
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then what is the overall monthly cash flow and how much of that comes from
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flow and how much of that comes from
37:51
flow and how much of that comes from regular income versus how much of it
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regular income versus how much of it
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regular income versus how much of it comes from passive income where regular
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comes from passive income where regular
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comes from passive income where regular income is what you're going to lose when
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income is what you're going to lose when
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income is what you're going to lose when you lose your job one day uh or retire
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you lose your job one day uh or retire
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you lose your job one day uh or retire from that job one day and then passive
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from that job one day and then passive
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from that job one day and then passive income is what you've got coming from
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income is what you've got coming from
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income is what you've got coming from investments from Real Estate from uh
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investments from Real Estate from uh
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investments from Real Estate from uh intellectual property from uh whatever
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intellectual property from uh whatever
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intellectual property from uh whatever uh book revenues things like that so how
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uh book revenues things like that so how
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uh book revenues things like that so how how much can you grow that passive
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how much can you grow that passive
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how much can you grow that passive income to get it to the point that you
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income to get it to the point that you
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income to get it to the point that you don't have to rely on the regular income
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don't have to rely on the regular income
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don't have to rely on the regular income and when that and then what overall is
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and when that and then what overall is
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and when that and then what overall is your monthly expenses and your debt to
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your monthly expenses and your debt to
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your monthly expenses and your debt to income ratio and I try and track those
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income ratio and I try and track those
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income ratio and I try and track those and then when that passive income
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and then when that passive income
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and then when that passive income exceeds what your monthly burn rate is
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exceeds what your monthly burn rate is
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exceeds what your monthly burn rate is then you're at a point where you don't
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then you're at a point where you don't
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then you're at a point where you don't need that day job anymore yeah and you
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need that day job anymore yeah and you
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need that day job anymore yeah and you could retire yeah yeah retire early
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could retire yeah yeah retire early
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could retire yeah yeah retire early which is you know was was my goal yep
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which is you know was was my goal yep
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which is you know was was my goal yep which didn't happen yep and I've seen
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which didn't happen yep and I've seen
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which didn't happen yep and I've seen too many people work into their 70s or
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too many people work into their 70s or
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too many people work into their 70s or or later or they retire and then find
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or later or they retire and then find
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or later or they retire and then find out that they've got to go uh take on a
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out that they've got to go uh take on a
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out that they've got to go uh take on a job because the retirement didn't didn't
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job because the retirement didn't didn't
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job because the retirement didn't didn't do it I mean I know a guy or something
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do it I mean I know a guy or something
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do it I mean I know a guy or something yeah yeah a guy in his 80s retired that
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yeah yeah a guy in his 80s retired that
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yeah yeah a guy in his 80s retired that that we know locally here and now he's
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that we know locally here and now he's
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that we know locally here and now he's working uh delivering Auto Parts the
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working uh delivering Auto Parts the
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working uh delivering Auto Parts the local auto part story runs them out to
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local auto part story runs them out to
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local auto part story runs them out to all the shops and uh that's not how I
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all the shops and uh that's not how I
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all the shops and uh that's not how I want to do retirement I really keep do
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want to do retirement I really keep do
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want to do retirement I really keep do what I doing today rather than than
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what I doing today rather than than
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what I doing today rather than than going to that type of retirement uh so
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going to that type of retirement uh so
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going to that type of retirement uh so really understanding those numbers and
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really understanding those numbers and
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really understanding those numbers and being able to analyze it and track it on
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being able to analyze it and track it on
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being able to analyze it and track it on a monthly basis and then kind of
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a monthly basis and then kind of
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a monthly basis and then kind of year-over-year look at it and set your
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year-over-year look at it and set your
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year-over-year look at it and set your goals of how do you get to where you
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goals of how do you get to where you
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goals of how do you get to where you need to be and when you look at it that
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need to be and when you look at it that
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need to be and when you look at it that way you need to look at well what are
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way you need to look at well what are
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way you need to look at well what are the things
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the things that uh if you end if you do end up on a
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that uh if you end if you do end up on a
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that uh if you end if you do end up on a fixed income what are the things that
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fixed income what are the things that
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fixed income what are the things that aren't going to be fixed with that and
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aren't going to be fixed with that and
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aren't going to be fixed with that and like part of that comes into defining
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like part of that comes into defining
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like part of that comes into defining your goals and what's your lifestyle
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your goals and what's your lifestyle
39:46
your goals and what's your lifestyle aspirations
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aspirations and how much do you really need to
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and how much do you really need to
39:50
and how much do you really need to achieve that and then what are the
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achieve that and then what are the
39:52
achieve that and then what are the things that are going to continue
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things that are going to continue
39:54
things that are going to continue continue to be more expensive in
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continue to be more expensive in
39:56
continue to be more expensive in retirement and I mean you think about
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retirement and I mean you think about
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retirement and I mean you think about things like well Food Insurance
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things like well Food Insurance
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things like well Food Insurance healthare housing
40:04
healthare housing and if you get to that point where you
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and if you get to that point where you
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and if you get to that point where you think you could retire today and you do
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think you could retire today and you do
40:10
think you could retire today and you do your math but it doesn't account for
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your math but it doesn't account for
40:13
your math but it doesn't account for those things increasing in five years
40:15
those things increasing in five years
40:15
those things increasing in five years right then it might be that yeah or or
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right then it might be that yeah or or
40:18
right then it might be that yeah or or 10 it might be at that point that's
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10 it might be at that point that's
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10 it might be at that point that's where you have to go back to work yeah
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where you have to go back to work yeah
40:21
where you have to go back to work yeah and hopefully I mean retirement I would
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and hopefully I mean retirement I would
40:23
and hopefully I mean retirement I would hope is a is a one-way transition for
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hope is a is a one-way transition for
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hope is a is a one-way transition for people not not a yeah all and I think
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people not not a yeah all and I think
40:29
people not not a yeah all and I think the key there oh go ahead yeah the key
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the key there oh go ahead yeah the key
40:32
the key there oh go ahead yeah the key there is really to figure out well where
40:33
there is really to figure out well where
40:33
there is really to figure out well where are you at and where do you want to be
40:36
are you at and where do you want to be
40:36
are you at and where do you want to be and creating a road map to get there
40:38
and creating a road map to get there
40:38
and creating a road map to get there yeah yeah and and that that brings up
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yeah yeah and and that that brings up
40:42
yeah yeah and and that that brings up you know what I was just thinking and
40:43
you know what I was just thinking and
40:43
you know what I was just thinking and that is you know something else that you
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that is you know something else that you
40:46
that is you know something else that you know I'll share a brief story of this is
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know I'll share a brief story of this is
40:49
know I'll share a brief story of this is you know so I've lived in San Diego most
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you know so I've lived in San Diego most
40:51
you know so I've lived in San Diego most of my life ever since I've joined the
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of my life ever since I've joined the
40:53
of my life ever since I've joined the Navy you know and anybody watches this
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Navy you know and anybody watches this
40:56
Navy you know and anybody watches this show you know I love San Diego I love
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show you know I love San Diego I love
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show you know I love San Diego I love the weather you know to me San Diego is
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the weather you know to me San Diego is
41:02
the weather you know to me San Diego is the best city to live in you know at
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the best city to live in you know at
41:04
the best city to live in you know at least far as weather goes in in the
41:06
least far as weather goes in in the
41:06
least far as weather goes in in the entire country and and and quite frankly
41:10
entire country and and and quite frankly
41:10
entire country and and and quite frankly I never want to leave San Diego right
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I never want to leave San Diego right
41:12
I never want to leave San Diego right because I love the city so much but you
41:15
because I love the city so much but you
41:15
because I love the city so much but you know back in in 2006 because I remember
41:19
know back in in 2006 because I remember
41:19
know back in in 2006 because I remember this vividly I started realizing I'm not
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this vividly I started realizing I'm not
41:22
this vividly I started realizing I'm not going to be able to retire here you know
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going to be able to retire here you know
41:25
going to be able to retire here you know it San Diego is so so freaking expensive
41:28
it San Diego is so so freaking expensive
41:28
it San Diego is so so freaking expensive and California as a whole right where do
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and California as a whole right where do
41:31
and California as a whole right where do he live I forgot oh uh Northwest
41:33
he live I forgot oh uh Northwest
41:33
he live I forgot oh uh Northwest Washington if if if you're in San Diego
41:36
Washington if if if you're in San Diego
41:36
Washington if if if you're in San Diego and you jump on I5 and Drive North until
41:38
and you jump on I5 and Drive North until
41:39
and you jump on I5 and Drive North until you hit Canada I'm at the other end yeah
41:41
you hit Canada I'm at the other end yeah
41:41
you hit Canada I'm at the other end yeah yeah just just south of the Canadian
41:42
yeah just just south of the Canadian
41:42
yeah just just south of the Canadian border so in so when I realized this in
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border so in so when I realized this in
41:47
border so in so when I realized this in 2006
41:48
2006 um in in that summer uh Microsoft flew
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um in in that summer uh Microsoft flew
41:52
um in in that summer uh Microsoft flew me up to Portland to not only speak that
41:55
me up to Portland to not only speak that
41:55
me up to Portland to not only speak that but to play in this band with a couple
41:56
but to play in this band with a couple
41:56
but to play in this band with a couple other with another Microsoft person and
41:59
other with another Microsoft person and
41:59
other with another Microsoft person and and and I really like the area and so I
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and and I really like the area and so I
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and and I really like the area and so I came back later in October to start
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came back later in October to start
42:04
came back later in October to start looking a property I spent two days with
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looking a property I spent two days with
42:06
looking a property I spent two days with the real estate agent to look at
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the real estate agent to look at
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the real estate agent to look at property so you know the reason I'm
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property so you know the reason I'm
42:10
property so you know the reason I'm bringing this up is you know you might
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bringing this up is you know you might
42:13
bringing this up is you know you might really love where you live now and you
42:15
really love where you live now and you
42:15
really love where you live now and you live where you do because of either you
42:17
live where you do because of either you
42:17
live where you do because of either you love the area or that's where all the
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love the area or that's where all the
42:19
love the area or that's where all the work is or whatever but one thing you
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work is or whatever but one thing you
42:22
work is or whatever but one thing you should think of is where do you want to
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should think of is where do you want to
42:24
should think of is where do you want to live in your retirement that you can
42:26
live in your retirement that you can
42:26
live in your retirement that you can afford
42:28
afford right right because I can't afford this
42:30
right right because I can't afford this
42:30
right right because I can't afford this I I don't know how most people can to
42:32
I I don't know how most people can to
42:32
I I don't know how most people can to tell you the truth and uh and so where
42:35
tell you the truth and uh and so where
42:35
tell you the truth and uh and so where can I go to get the most value out of
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can I go to get the most value out of
42:38
can I go to get the most value out of what money I've saved or I have in you
42:41
what money I've saved or I have in you
42:41
what money I've saved or I have in you know real estate and things like that uh
42:44
know real estate and things like that uh
42:44
know real estate and things like that uh to to last the next 20 or 30 years or
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to to last the next 20 or 30 years or
42:47
to to last the next 20 or 30 years or whatever I have left right and and so
42:51
whatever I have left right and and so
42:51
whatever I have left right and and so that's something else you need to think
42:52
that's something else you need to think
42:52
that's something else you need to think about is yeah you might like where you
42:54
about is yeah you might like where you
42:54
about is yeah you might like where you are now but where do you want to live
42:56
are now but where do you want to live
42:56
are now but where do you want to live when you retire that's affordable that
42:58
when you retire that's affordable that
42:58
when you retire that's affordable that you can afford right and and that might
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you can afford right and and that might
43:01
you can afford right and and that might be a really tough decision it is uh
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be a really tough decision it is uh
43:03
be a really tough decision it is uh Fourth of July just a couple days ago uh
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Fourth of July just a couple days ago uh
43:05
Fourth of July just a couple days ago uh we were barbecuing and a buddy of mine
43:07
we were barbecuing and a buddy of mine
43:07
we were barbecuing and a buddy of mine dropped by and he's mid-60s and he's at
43:11
dropped by and he's mid-60s and he's at
43:11
dropped by and he's mid-60s and he's at the point where he's getting really
43:12
the point where he's getting really
43:12
the point where he's getting really close to retiring and the only place
43:15
close to retiring and the only place
43:15
close to retiring and the only place he's figured out that he can afford to
43:17
he's figured out that he can afford to
43:17
he's figured out that he can afford to live is to go and buy a place in Panama
43:21
live is to go and buy a place in Panama
43:21
live is to go and buy a place in Panama yeah yeah and there's Costa Rica other
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yeah yeah and there's Costa Rica other
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yeah yeah and there's Costa Rica other places you can do similar things like
43:26
places you can do similar things like
43:26
places you can do similar things like that but it's a very different uh
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that but it's a very different uh
43:28
that but it's a very different uh lifestyle than what you might have
43:30
lifestyle than what you might have
43:30
lifestyle than what you might have living in your hometown today living in
43:32
living in your hometown today living in
43:32
living in your hometown today living in San Diego yeah yeah and I know a lot of
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San Diego yeah yeah and I know a lot of
43:34
San Diego yeah yeah and I know a lot of people you know uh move to other
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people you know uh move to other
43:37
people you know uh move to other countries Mexico other places like that
43:39
countries Mexico other places like that
43:39
countries Mexico other places like that you know even um I spoke and I know most
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you know even um I spoke and I know most
43:43
you know even um I spoke and I know most of you probably haven't heard of this
43:44
of you probably haven't heard of this
43:44
of you probably haven't heard of this country Marius but I spoke there twice
43:47
country Marius but I spoke there twice
43:47
country Marius but I spoke there twice and uh you know it's it's an island
43:50
and uh you know it's it's an island
43:50
and uh you know it's it's an island country it's kind of like Hawaii but you
43:52
country it's kind of like Hawaii but you
43:52
country it's kind of like Hawaii but you know uh off the coast of Madagascar and
43:56
know uh off the coast of Madagascar and
43:56
know uh off the coast of Madagascar and uh um um so the second time I went there
43:59
uh um um so the second time I went there
43:59
uh um um so the second time I went there the two people who run the conference
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the two people who run the conference
44:01
the two people who run the conference were kind of trying to convince me to I
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were kind of trying to convince me to I
44:04
were kind of trying to convince me to I might like to move there you know
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might like to move there you know
44:06
might like to move there you know because they because Marias is actively
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because they because Marias is actively
44:09
because they because Marias is actively trying to move Tech into their country
44:12
trying to move Tech into their country
44:12
trying to move Tech into their country right and uh they even have a town there
44:14
right and uh they even have a town there
44:14
right and uh they even have a town there called Tech town which is nothing but
44:17
called Tech town which is nothing but
44:17
called Tech town which is nothing but tech companies and wow but so you know
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tech companies and wow but so you know
44:21
tech companies and wow but so you know one of the hardest things at least if
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one of the hardest things at least if
44:23
one of the hardest things at least if you're looking at going to a different
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you're looking at going to a different
44:24
you're looking at going to a different country is the the uh visa and how
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country is the the uh visa and how
44:29
country is the the uh visa and how they're going to allow a foreigner to
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they're going to allow a foreigner to
44:31
they're going to allow a foreigner to live there right so when when the when
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live there right so when when the when
44:33
live there right so when when the when this couple was trying to convince me to
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this couple was trying to convince me to
44:35
this couple was trying to convince me to move maius I learned or they told me
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move maius I learned or they told me
44:38
move maius I learned or they told me about um these these Condominiums maius
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about um these these Condominiums maius
44:41
about um these these Condominiums maius has where if you buy a condominium you
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has where if you buy a condominium you
44:44
has where if you buy a condominium you instantly get a 10-year work permit
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instantly get a 10-year work permit
44:47
instantly get a 10-year work permit right so oh yeah so they're trying to
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right so oh yeah so they're trying to
44:50
right so oh yeah so they're trying to convince you to move to you know to
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convince you to move to you know to
44:52
convince you to move to you know to Marius out in the middle of freaking
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Marius out in the middle of freaking
44:54
Marius out in the middle of freaking nowhere but you know by enticing people
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nowhere but you know by enticing people
44:56
nowhere but you know by enticing people like that and other countries are doing
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like that and other countries are doing
44:58
like that and other countries are doing the same thing right is msus is not the
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the same thing right is msus is not the
45:01
the same thing right is msus is not the only country that does this lots of
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only country that does this lots of
45:02
only country that does this lots of other countries do the same thing and
45:06
other countries do the same thing and
45:06
other countries do the same thing and and so you might have to move to a
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and so you might have to move to a
45:09
and so you might have to move to a different country and what does that I
45:11
different country and what does that I
45:11
different country and what does that I if you want to last another 10 20 or 30
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if you want to last another 10 20 or 30
45:14
if you want to last another 10 20 or 30 years and and what does that entail and
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years and and what does that entail and
45:16
years and and what does that entail and and what are the hurdles you have to go
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and what are the hurdles you have to go
45:18
and what are the hurdles you have to go through to to even do that right yep and
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through to to even do that right yep and
45:21
through to to even do that right yep and then if you do that and you get into
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then if you do that and you get into
45:24
then if you do that and you get into your 80s or 90s what is the healthare
45:27
your 80s or 90s what is the healthare
45:27
your 80s or 90s what is the healthare option available for you in that
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option available for you in that
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option available for you in that retirement right and it might be that uh
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retirement right and it might be that uh
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retirement right and it might be that uh it might not be what you're looking for
45:35
it might not be what you're looking for
45:35
it might not be what you're looking for you never know yeah and I mean I I'd
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you never know yeah and I mean I I'd
45:38
you never know yeah and I mean I I'd want to move to a country that has like
45:40
want to move to a country that has like
45:40
want to move to a country that has like more of a Universal Health Care thing
45:42
more of a Universal Health Care thing
45:42
more of a Universal Health Care thing just because you know the America has
45:44
just because you know the America has
45:44
just because you know the America has just totally messed that whole thing up
45:46
just totally messed that whole thing up
45:46
just totally messed that whole thing up and uh um but I you know I think about
45:50
and uh um but I you know I think about
45:50
and uh um but I you know I think about that because I am older and and Health
45:53
that because I am older and and Health
45:53
that because I am older and and Health Care is incredibly expensive and I see
45:56
Care is incredibly expensive and I see
45:56
Care is incredibly expensive and I see you know I see how many health issues
45:58
you know I see how many health issues
45:58
you know I see how many health issues the older people in my complex are
46:00
the older people in my complex are
46:00
the older people in my complex are dealing with and all everything they go
46:02
dealing with and all everything they go
46:02
dealing with and all everything they go through right and going oh man is that
46:05
through right and going oh man is that
46:05
through right and going oh man is that me in the next 10 or 20 years and and
46:08
me in the next 10 or 20 years and and
46:08
me in the next 10 or 20 years and and how am I going to be able to afford that
46:09
how am I going to be able to afford that
46:09
how am I going to be able to afford that on a fixed income on on on retirement
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on a fixed income on on on retirement
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on a fixed income on on on retirement right oh yeah and I think the uh the
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right oh yeah and I think the uh the
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right oh yeah and I think the uh the dream of hitting the the internet
46:19
dream of hitting the the internet
46:19
dream of hitting the the internet startup with the stock options is is uh
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startup with the stock options is is uh
46:22
startup with the stock options is is uh has come and gone if we haven't hit it
46:23
has come and gone if we haven't hit it
46:24
has come and gone if we haven't hit it yet right yeah yeah yeah that's I I
46:26
yet right yeah yeah yeah that's I I
46:26
yet right yeah yeah yeah that's I I don't think anybody should believe in
46:27
don't think anybody should believe in
46:27
don't think anybody should believe in that pipe sorry
46:29
that pipe sorry that pipe dream anymore
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that pipe dream anymore
46:33
that pipe dream anymore um oh yeah I there were so many times I
46:37
um oh yeah I there were so many times I
46:37
um oh yeah I there were so many times I I think we learned our lessons with the
46:38
I think we learned our lessons with the
46:38
I think we learned our lessons with the internet bubble bursting I you know
46:41
internet bubble bursting I you know
46:41
internet bubble bursting I you know that's where I learned my lesson at
46:42
that's where I learned my lesson at
46:42
that's where I learned my lesson at least yeah yep yep absolutely so I guess
46:47
least yeah yep yep absolutely so I guess
46:47
least yeah yep yep absolutely so I guess I mean with this it's one of those
46:49
I mean with this it's one of those
46:49
I mean with this it's one of those things that if you're younger if you're
46:52
things that if you're younger if you're
46:52
things that if you're younger if you're just getting started in your career
46:54
just getting started in your career
46:54
just getting started in your career think about it now and think about what
46:56
think about it now and think about what
46:56
think about it now and think about what can you do to build that long-term
46:59
can you do to build that long-term
46:59
can you do to build that long-term passive income somehow yeah and I mean
47:02
passive income somehow yeah and I mean
47:02
passive income somehow yeah and I mean my experience has been real estate is
47:04
my experience has been real estate is
47:04
my experience has been real estate is good a good way to do it uh building a
47:06
good a good way to do it uh building a
47:06
good a good way to do it uh building a business is a good way to do it and uh
47:10
business is a good way to do it and uh
47:10
business is a good way to do it and uh building up different Investments that
47:13
building up different Investments that
47:13
building up different Investments that you can be making money off of your
47:15
you can be making money off of your
47:15
you can be making money off of your money rather than making money off your
47:16
money rather than making money off your
47:16
money rather than making money off your labor is another way to do it yeah and I
47:18
labor is another way to do it yeah and I
47:18
labor is another way to do it yeah and I think that uh and to get there though
47:21
think that uh and to get there though
47:21
think that uh and to get there though there's managing debt and if you're in a
47:23
there's managing debt and if you're in a
47:23
there's managing debt and if you're in a position today where somebody says well
47:25
position today where somebody says well
47:25
position today where somebody says well I can't get there because I have so much
47:27
I can't get there because I have so much
47:27
I can't get there because I have so much credit card debt or I have so much debt
47:28
credit card debt or I have so much debt
47:28
credit card debt or I have so much debt on my car or those kind of things uh
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on my car or those kind of things uh
47:31
on my car or those kind of things uh Dave Ramsey talks about the debt
47:33
Dave Ramsey talks about the debt
47:33
Dave Ramsey talks about the debt snowball which is a pretty cool deal
47:34
snowball which is a pretty cool deal
47:35
snowball which is a pretty cool deal where they say just pay the minimum on
47:37
where they say just pay the minimum on
47:37
where they say just pay the minimum on all of your your payments except for the
47:40
all of your your payments except for the
47:40
all of your your payments except for the smallest one the easiest one to pay off
47:43
smallest one the easiest one to pay off
47:43
smallest one the easiest one to pay off and then pay as much as you possibly can
47:44
and then pay as much as you possibly can
47:44
and then pay as much as you possibly can on that small one until you get to the
47:47
on that small one until you get to the
47:47
on that small one until you get to the point that eating away at it yeah eating
47:50
point that eating away at it yeah eating
47:50
point that eating away at it yeah eating away at it and I mean I've done that a
47:51
away at it and I mean I've done that a
47:51
away at it and I mean I've done that a few times and uh it's it's an effective
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few times and uh it's it's an effective
47:55
few times and uh it's it's an effective way to do things because because once
47:57
way to do things because because once
47:57
way to do things because because once that small one's gone it's easier to pay
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that small one's gone it's easier to pay
48:00
that small one's gone it's easier to pay the next one down and easier to pay the
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the next one down and easier to pay the
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the next one down and easier to pay the next one down and uh and fortunately I'm
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next one down and uh and fortunately I'm
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next one down and uh and fortunately I'm so adverse to debt other I mean as long
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so adverse to debt other I mean as long
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so adverse to debt other I mean as long as the debt doesn't make me money I'm
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as the debt doesn't make me money I'm
48:09
as the debt doesn't make me money I'm credit card debt today that I mean I
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credit card debt today that I mean I
48:11
credit card debt today that I mean I don't have to deal with that anymore but
48:13
don't have to deal with that anymore but
48:13
don't have to deal with that anymore but getting there has been a challenge over
48:14
getting there has been a challenge over
48:14
getting there has been a challenge over the years and then having that emergency
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the years and then having that emergency
48:16
the years and then having that emergency fund that six months like you talked
48:18
fund that six months like you talked
48:18
fund that six months like you talked about uh I think that a lot of people
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about uh I think that a lot of people
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about uh I think that a lot of people look at like Consulting versus full-time
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look at like Consulting versus full-time
48:25
look at like Consulting versus full-time FTE position
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FTE position and they say well I don't want to do
48:28
and they say well I don't want to do
48:28
and they say well I don't want to do Consulting because FTE position is more
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Consulting because FTE position is more
48:31
Consulting because FTE position is more stable well in my experience that's
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stable well in my experience that's
48:34
stable well in my experience that's that's not the case I've had multiple
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that's not the case I've had multiple
48:37
that's not the case I've had multiple companies with layoffs where you thought
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companies with layoffs where you thought
48:39
companies with layoffs where you thought everything was groovy and then all of a
48:40
everything was groovy and then all of a
48:40
everything was groovy and then all of a sudden uh half the company's unemployed
48:42
sudden uh half the company's unemployed
48:42
sudden uh half the company's unemployed or in my case on my last time around I
48:44
or in my case on my last time around I
48:44
or in my case on my last time around I was the one that was being laid off just
48:46
was the one that was being laid off just
48:46
was the one that was being laid off just one so well you know the reason I live
48:49
one so well you know the reason I live
48:49
one so well you know the reason I live where I do about a mile away from from
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where I do about a mile away from from
48:52
where I do about a mile away from from the beach is because I used to literally
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the beach is because I used to literally
48:55
the beach is because I used to literally work like three blocks away right and
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work like three blocks away right and
48:59
work like three blocks away right and and when I started working there when I
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and when I started working there when I
49:01
and when I started working there when I was still more of a beginner you know I
49:03
was still more of a beginner you know I
49:03
was still more of a beginner you know I hate commuting more than anything and so
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hate commuting more than anything and so
49:05
hate commuting more than anything and so that's why I bought this place um but
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that's why I bought this place um but
49:08
that's why I bought this place um but now I forgot where I was going with that
49:10
now I forgot where I was going with that
49:10
now I forgot where I was going with that did the commuting n it'll come back uh
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did the commuting n it'll come back uh
49:15
did the commuting n it'll come back uh but oh the the other thing I want to
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but oh the the other thing I want to
49:17
but oh the the other thing I want to bring up real quick and and that is uh
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bring up real quick and and that is uh
49:20
bring up real quick and and that is uh uh kids now you know you and I both have
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uh kids now you know you and I both have
49:23
uh kids now you know you and I both have children but M mine are older now I have
49:25
children but M mine are older now I have
49:25
children but M mine are older now I have uh you know grandkids
49:27
uh you know grandkids
49:27
uh you know grandkids and and believe me I know how hard it is
49:31
and and believe me I know how hard it is
49:31
and and believe me I know how hard it is to have kids and be a younger developer
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to have kids and be a younger developer
49:33
to have kids and be a younger developer and living paycheck to paycheck and
49:35
and living paycheck to paycheck and
49:35
and living paycheck to paycheck and barely making it through believe me I
49:38
barely making it through believe me I
49:38
barely making it through believe me I was there I did it for a very long time
49:41
was there I did it for a very long time
49:41
was there I did it for a very long time but um you know you still need to work
49:44
but um you know you still need to work
49:44
but um you know you still need to work on this even though you're dealing with
49:46
on this even though you're dealing with
49:46
on this even though you're dealing with those struggles because you know it you
49:50
those struggles because you know it you
49:50
those struggles because you know it you know you need to start working on it
49:51
know you need to start working on it
49:51
know you need to start working on it right when you start getting a full-time
49:53
right when you start getting a full-time
49:53
right when you start getting a full-time job your first gig right yep and and I
49:57
job your first gig right yep and and I
49:57
job your first gig right yep and and I look at that and I think that if I could
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look at that and I think that if I could
50:00
look at that and I think that if I could have started with the focus I had when I
50:02
have started with the focus I had when I
50:02
have started with the focus I had when I was mid-30s if I could have had that
50:05
was mid-30s if I could have had that
50:05
was mid-30s if I could have had that same focus in my early 20s I'd probably
50:07
same focus in my early 20s I'd probably
50:07
same focus in my early 20s I'd probably be retired by now yeah yeah me but I
50:10
be retired by now yeah yeah me but I
50:10
be retired by now yeah yeah me but I didn't know what I was doing and I think
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didn't know what I was doing and I think
50:12
didn't know what I was doing and I think that picking up books reading more on
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that picking up books reading more on
50:15
that picking up books reading more on different topics on getting there uh is
50:18
different topics on getting there uh is
50:18
different topics on getting there uh is a great way to start and then take those
50:20
a great way to start and then take those
50:20
a great way to start and then take those things and figure out how can you do
50:21
things and figure out how can you do
50:21
things and figure out how can you do that in your own life yeah yeah it's and
50:25
that in your own life yeah yeah it's and
50:25
that in your own life yeah yeah it's and and sadly you know America does
50:29
and sadly you know America does
50:29
and sadly you know America does a very very poor job on teaching kids
50:33
a very very poor job on teaching kids
50:33
a very very poor job on teaching kids this like in high school and college
50:35
this like in high school and college
50:35
this like in high school and college right I mean the only class I went to in
50:39
right I mean the only class I went to in
50:39
right I mean the only class I went to in in high school for financial stuff was
50:41
in high school for financial stuff was
50:41
in high school for financial stuff was learned how to use a checkbook and stuff
50:43
learned how to use a checkbook and stuff
50:43
learned how to use a checkbook and stuff like that nothing about saving or you
50:46
like that nothing about saving or you
50:46
like that nothing about saving or you know nothing like that right and I think
50:50
know nothing like that right and I think
50:50
know nothing like that right and I think you know that is a big problem in any
50:53
you know that is a big problem in any
50:53
you know that is a big problem in any country that doesn't teach CH kids that
50:56
country that doesn't teach CH kids that
50:56
country that doesn't teach CH kids that right when they're in teenage years so
50:58
right when they're in teenage years so
50:58
right when they're in teenage years so they can start working you know on their
51:00
they can start working you know on their
51:00
they can start working you know on their nest EG you know when they you know get
51:02
nest EG you know when they you know get
51:02
nest EG you know when they you know get out of school yep yep and I think it's
51:04
out of school yep yep and I think it's
51:04
out of school yep yep and I think it's one of those things that let's say you
51:06
one of those things that let's say you
51:06
one of those things that let's say you went and you went and built this whole
51:08
went and you went and built this whole
51:08
went and you went and built this whole curriculum to teach kids Financial
51:11
curriculum to teach kids Financial
51:11
curriculum to teach kids Financial education I think it would be a hard
51:13
education I think it would be a hard
51:13
education I think it would be a hard sell I mean I think it would be an
51:14
sell I mean I think it would be an
51:14
sell I mean I think it would be an awesome thing to have but I think it
51:15
awesome thing to have but I think it
51:15
awesome thing to have but I think it would be a really hard sell because at
51:17
would be a really hard sell because at
51:17
would be a really hard sell because at that point that's not what people are
51:20
that point that's not what people are
51:20
that point that's not what people are what kids are thinking about it's almost
51:21
what kids are thinking about it's almost
51:21
what kids are thinking about it's almost like the school system has to have
51:24
like the school system has to have
51:24
like the school system has to have something where it could just be the
51:27
something where it could just be the
51:27
something where it could just be the curriculum yeah it has to be mandated
51:29
curriculum yeah it has to be mandated
51:29
curriculum yeah it has to be mandated and I think that I mean with the school
51:30
and I think that I mean with the school
51:30
and I think that I mean with the school systems today we're hardly getting uh
51:33
systems today we're hardly getting uh
51:33
systems today we're hardly getting uh what people need to be able to reading
51:35
what people need to be able to reading
51:35
what people need to be able to reading right out of it almost so I know I
51:37
right out of it almost so I know I
51:38
right out of it almost so I know I know that's tough spot when you were
51:40
know that's tough spot when you were
51:41
know that's tough spot when you were talking about this one of the other
51:42
talking about this one of the other
51:42
talking about this one of the other things I was thinking about was uh you
51:45
things I was thinking about was uh you
51:45
things I was thinking about was uh you know because you know whenever I see a
51:46
know because you know whenever I see a
51:46
know because you know whenever I see a problem I try to figure out how can we
51:49
problem I try to figure out how can we
51:49
problem I try to figure out how can we you know make this better for other
51:51
you know make this better for other
51:51
you know make this better for other people and so one of the things I
51:53
people and so one of the things I
51:53
people and so one of the things I thought about when you were talking was
51:54
thought about when you were talking was
51:54
thought about when you were talking was uh well maybe we should start having
51:56
uh well maybe we should start having
51:56
uh well maybe we should start having conference sessions on this but then I
51:58
conference sessions on this but then I
51:58
conference sessions on this but then I thought ah no conference is going to
52:00
thought ah no conference is going to
52:00
thought ah no conference is going to pick that up right I mean it's it's you
52:02
pick that up right I mean it's it's you
52:02
pick that up right I mean it's it's you know I doubt very much any conference is
52:04
know I doubt very much any conference is
52:04
know I doubt very much any conference is going to actually have a a session about
52:07
going to actually have a a session about
52:08
going to actually have a a session about that but I think it's important I you
52:09
that but I think it's important I you
52:09
that but I think it's important I you know I think it's important for us to
52:11
know I think it's important for us to
52:11
know I think it's important for us to worry about because we're not taught
52:13
worry about because we're not taught
52:13
worry about because we're not taught about this in school and so how do you
52:15
about this in school and so how do you
52:15
about this in school and so how do you get the message across right and so I
52:17
get the message across right and so I
52:17
get the message across right and so I hope that you know uh you know episodes
52:21
hope that you know uh you know episodes
52:21
hope that you know uh you know episodes like this one and in September and I
52:23
like this one and in September and I
52:23
like this one and in September and I know Shawn wildermoth has uh was on
52:25
know Shawn wildermoth has uh was on
52:26
know Shawn wildermoth has uh was on donet rocks uh recently talking about
52:28
donet rocks uh recently talking about
52:28
donet rocks uh recently talking about the same subject and um so we need to
52:33
the same subject and um so we need to
52:33
the same subject and um so we need to start talking about this more and and
52:35
start talking about this more and and
52:35
start talking about this more and and sharing what like you who you know what
52:38
sharing what like you who you know what
52:38
sharing what like you who you know what you've done you know start sharing this
52:40
you've done you know start sharing this
52:40
you've done you know start sharing this more with others to you know encourage
52:43
more with others to you know encourage
52:43
more with others to you know encourage them and you know with that said because
52:45
them and you know with that said because
52:45
them and you know with that said because we have to go in a minute but so since
52:48
we have to go in a minute but so since
52:48
we have to go in a minute but so since you have been working on this for a
52:49
you have been working on this for a
52:49
you have been working on this for a while what books do you recommend or
52:51
while what books do you recommend or
52:51
while what books do you recommend or websites do you recommend to go to well
52:54
websites do you recommend to go to well
52:54
websites do you recommend to go to well I think the the fundamental one that
52:56
I think the the fundamental one that
52:56
I think the the fundamental one that changed my Outlook on it was the Rich
52:58
changed my Outlook on it was the Rich
52:58
changed my Outlook on it was the Rich Dad Poor Dad from Robert kosaki and then
53:01
Dad Poor Dad from Robert kosaki and then
53:01
Dad Poor Dad from Robert kosaki and then uh the what is it Dave ramy's uh Money
53:06
uh the what is it Dave ramy's uh Money
53:06
uh the what is it Dave ramy's uh Money Makeover I think is the name of it or
53:07
Makeover I think is the name of it or
53:07
Makeover I think is the name of it or something like that uh that was a really
53:09
something like that uh that was a really
53:09
something like that uh that was a really good one and then uh it's just reading
53:12
good one and then uh it's just reading
53:12
good one and then uh it's just reading countless for me business books and
53:16
countless for me business books and
53:16
countless for me business books and learning how to uh understand the
53:20
learning how to uh understand the
53:20
learning how to uh understand the financing side of it understand and I
53:23
financing side of it understand and I
53:23
financing side of it understand and I guess the other thing is working with uh
53:26
guess the other thing is working with uh
53:26
guess the other thing is working with uh good professionals like accountants and
53:28
good professionals like accountants and
53:28
good professionals like accountants and lawyers people who know how to answer
53:29
lawyers people who know how to answer
53:29
lawyers people who know how to answer those questions so when you say well is
53:31
those questions so when you say well is
53:31
those questions so when you say well is this really true what I read in this
53:32
this really true what I read in this
53:33
this really true what I read in this article they you can run it by your
53:34
article they you can run it by your
53:34
article they you can run it by your accountant and they'll know so yeah yeah
53:36
accountant and they'll know so yeah yeah
53:36
accountant and they'll know so yeah yeah and and you know I until he retired last
53:40
and and you know I until he retired last
53:40
and and you know I until he retired last December I had a really great accountant
53:42
December I had a really great accountant
53:42
December I had a really great accountant that really you know helped me you know
53:46
that really you know helped me you know
53:46
that really you know helped me you know you know tell me things I needed to do
53:47
you know tell me things I needed to do
53:47
you know tell me things I needed to do that I didn't know right and and so you
53:50
that I didn't know right and and so you
53:50
that I didn't know right and and so you know getting accountant yeah it costs
53:52
know getting accountant yeah it costs
53:53
know getting accountant yeah it costs money but I I think they're definitely
53:54
money but I I think they're definitely
53:54
money but I I think they're definitely worth it if you find a good one
53:57
worth it if you find a good one
53:57
worth it if you find a good one oh absolutely and I think that yeah what
53:59
oh absolutely and I think that yeah what
53:59
oh absolutely and I think that yeah what what my account in charges is certainly
54:01
what my account in charges is certainly
54:01
what my account in charges is certainly worth every penny that I pay mine too
54:03
worth every penny that I pay mine too
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worth every penny that I pay mine too yeah M too yeah I never complain about
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yeah M too yeah I never complain about
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yeah M too yeah I never complain about paying him money because he makes me
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paying him money because he makes me
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paying him money because he makes me money in the end right yeah yeah yeah
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money in the end right yeah yeah yeah
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money in the end right yeah yeah yeah well I probably have to let you go is
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well I probably have to let you go is
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well I probably have to let you go is there anything you want to finish up
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there anything you want to finish up
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there anything you want to finish up with real quick oh just uh measure
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with real quick oh just uh measure
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with real quick oh just uh measure what's important on your on on on your
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what's important on your on on on your
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what's important on your on on on your success along the way and just keep on
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success along the way and just keep on
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success along the way and just keep on trucking keep on going and you'll get
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trucking keep on going and you'll get
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trucking keep on going and you'll get there yeah uh what was the dat again on
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there yeah uh what was the dat again on
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there yeah uh what was the dat again on that uh Forum you're doing in September
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that uh Forum you're doing in September
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that uh Forum you're doing in September I think it's September 7th is that right
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I think it's September 7th is that right
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I think it's September 7th is that right Simon um well I I can look it up I just
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Simon um well I I can look it up I just
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Simon um well I I can look it up I just want to make sure that uh that I tune in
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want to make sure that uh that I tune in
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want to make sure that uh that I tune in for that
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one uh oh I think we clicked something
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wrong I hit the wrong button yeah you
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wrong I hit the wrong button yeah you
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wrong I hit the wrong button yeah you know what done that before
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too oh he dropped by mistake yes I
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too oh he dropped by mistake yes I
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too oh he dropped by mistake yes I dropped by mistake sorry about that
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dropped by mistake sorry about that
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dropped by mistake sorry about that Simon
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Simon um I'm sorry what were you saying when I
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um I'm sorry what were you saying when I
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um I'm sorry what were you saying when I dropped oh just I want to make sure I
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dropped oh just I want to make sure I
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dropped oh just I want to make sure I tune in for that one because I want to
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tune in for that one because I want to
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tune in for that one because I want to learn as much as I can along the way too
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learn as much as I can along the way too
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learn as much as I can along the way too yeah September it's September 7th it's
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yeah September it's September 7th it's
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yeah September it's September 7th it's going to be a longer one it's going to
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going to be a longer one it's going to
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going to be a longer one it's going to be like an hour and a half um I have
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be like an hour and a half um I have
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be like an hour and a half um I have four people I'm I'm waiting for a
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four people I'm I'm waiting for a
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four people I'm I'm waiting for a response for one more person and uh and
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response for one more person and uh and
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response for one more person and uh and uh people that I really you know uh like
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uh people that I really you know uh like
55:27
uh people that I really you know uh like in this world and I know has a lot of
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in this world and I know has a lot of
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in this world and I know has a lot of experience in this area that can bring a
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experience in this area that can bring a
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experience in this area that can bring a lot to I mean I I wish the show was
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lot to I mean I I wish the show was
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lot to I mean I I wish the show was longer but you know we can't really do
55:38
longer but you know we can't really do
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longer but you know we can't really do that but um I want to get at least and
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that but um I want to get at least and
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that but um I want to get at least and maybe we'll do more of these I don't
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maybe we'll do more of these I don't
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maybe we'll do more of these I don't know but you know I at least want to get
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know but you know I at least want to get
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know but you know I at least want to get the ball rolling because I just I just
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the ball rolling because I just I just
55:46
the ball rolling because I just I just want to put the you know the idea in
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want to put the you know the idea in
55:48
want to put the you know the idea in younger developers brains because no one
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younger developers brains because no one
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younger developers brains because no one put it in my brain right Y and and so I
55:53
put it in my brain right Y and and so I
55:53
put it in my brain right Y and and so I wanted same here yeah I you know so I
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wanted same here yeah I you know so I
55:56
wanted same here yeah I you know so I want to encourage people you know don't
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want to encourage people you know don't
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want to encourage people you know don't be afraid of you know being older in
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be afraid of you know being older in
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be afraid of you know being older in this career but you need to plan for it
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this career but you need to plan for it
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this career but you need to plan for it yep absolutely yeah yeah and I guess I
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yep absolutely yeah yeah and I guess I
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yep absolutely yeah yeah and I guess I just want to finish up with uh thank you
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just want to finish up with uh thank you
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just want to finish up with uh thank you for having me on the show I mean it's
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for having me on the show I mean it's
56:10
for having me on the show I mean it's it's awesome I appreciate it and uh yeah
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it's awesome I appreciate it and uh yeah
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it's awesome I appreciate it and uh yeah yeah I really enjoyed this pleasure yeah
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yeah I really enjoyed this pleasure yeah
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yeah I really enjoyed this pleasure yeah it's been great talking to you again uh
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it's been great talking to you again uh
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it's been great talking to you again uh you know it's been this is I'm glad you
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you know it's been this is I'm glad you
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you know it's been this is I'm glad you picked this topic because it kind of
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picked this topic because it kind of
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picked this topic because it kind of sets up the the the the September
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sets up the the the the September
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sets up the the the the September episode
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episode and um and uh and I you know I have to
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and um and uh and I you know I have to
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and um and uh and I you know I have to tell you the truth that you know I'm
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tell you the truth that you know I'm
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tell you the truth that you know I'm just not blowing smoke when I say you're
56:34
just not blowing smoke when I say you're
56:34
just not blowing smoke when I say you're I have to use your tool when I use SQL
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I have to use your tool when I use SQL
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I have to use your tool when I use SQL Server I mean oh with database health
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Server I mean oh with database health
56:38
Server I mean oh with database health monitor you know I mean I totally
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monitor you know I mean I totally
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monitor you know I mean I totally understand it because even though I
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understand it because even though I
56:42
understand it because even though I built it I have to use it because it's
56:44
built it I have to use it because it's
56:44
built it I have to use it because it's so many shortcuts that I've I don't know
56:47
so many shortcuts that I've I don't know
56:47
so many shortcuts that I've I don't know that it takes me too long if I don't use
56:48
that it takes me too long if I don't use
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that it takes me too long if I don't use it yeah yeah yeah well that's kind of
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it yeah yeah yeah well that's kind of
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it yeah yeah yeah well that's kind of how way I feel about my open source
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how way I feel about my open source
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how way I feel about my open source project yeah I could write all that code
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project yeah I could write all that code
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project yeah I could write all that code in projects but why I've already written
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in projects but why I've already written
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in projects but why I've already written it why just not reuse it from experience
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it why just not reuse it from experience
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it why just not reuse it from experience and testing and all that stuff right yep
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and testing and all that stuff right yep
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and testing and all that stuff right yep absolutely well thanks so much I hope
57:05
absolutely well thanks so much I hope
57:05
absolutely well thanks so much I hope you have a great rest of the weekend I
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you have a great rest of the weekend I
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you have a great rest of the weekend I don't hang out after the show anymore
57:08
don't hang out after the show anymore
57:08
don't hang out after the show anymore but uh I hope you have a great rest of
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but uh I hope you have a great rest of
57:10
but uh I hope you have a great rest of the weekend and and uh if if you do
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the weekend and and uh if if you do
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the weekend and and uh if if you do watch live in September please make
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watch live in September please make
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watch live in September please make comments while we're talking oh yeah I
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comments while we're talking oh yeah I
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comments while we're talking oh yeah I I'll I'll keep an eye out for it and
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I'll I'll keep an eye out for it and
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I'll I'll keep an eye out for it and I'll see what I can do okay great all
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I'll see what I can do okay great all
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I'll see what I can do okay great all right well thank you David have a great
57:23
right well thank you David have a great
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right well thank you David have a great day thank you so so much see you next
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day thank you so so much see you next
57:25
day thank you so so much see you next time yep bye well that was a really
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time yep bye well that was a really
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time yep bye well that was a really great uh discussion with Steve I you
57:30
great uh discussion with Steve I you
57:30
great uh discussion with Steve I you know like I said this uh subject is
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know like I said this uh subject is
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know like I said this uh subject is really important to me because I'm am
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really important to me because I'm am
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really important to me because I'm am struggling you know uh big time right
57:37
struggling you know uh big time right
57:37
struggling you know uh big time right now and and uh you know I don't want to
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now and and uh you know I don't want to
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now and and uh you know I don't want to complain about it what I want to do is
57:41
complain about it what I want to do is
57:41
complain about it what I want to do is find a way to help other developers you
57:44
find a way to help other developers you
57:44
find a way to help other developers you know to not struggle like I am right now
57:47
know to not struggle like I am right now
57:47
know to not struggle like I am right now and um and lots of other people I'm not
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and um and lots of other people I'm not
57:49
and um and lots of other people I'm not the only one in this boat you know
57:51
the only one in this boat you know
57:52
the only one in this boat you know luckily like I I mentioned a little bit
57:54
luckily like I I mentioned a little bit
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luckily like I I mentioned a little bit ago other people are starting to speak
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ago other people are starting to speak
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ago other people are starting to speak up about this um and this is the first
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up about this um and this is the first
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up about this um and this is the first time I really remember people talking
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time I really remember people talking
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time I really remember people talking about this and uh so I hope this Spurs
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about this and uh so I hope this Spurs
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about this and uh so I hope this Spurs more and more people uh so we can help
58:07
more and more people uh so we can help
58:07
more and more people uh so we can help more and more developers uh you know
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more and more developers uh you know
58:10
more and more developers uh you know plan for their retirement whenever that
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plan for their retirement whenever that
58:12
plan for their retirement whenever that is right whether you're older or younger
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is right whether you're older or younger
58:15
is right whether you're older or younger uh you you're not going to be able to
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uh you you're not going to be able to
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uh you you're not going to be able to retire if you don't plan it's not going
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retire if you don't plan it's not going
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retire if you don't plan it's not going to happen magically um unless a company
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to happen magically um unless a company
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to happen magically um unless a company forces you I
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forces you I guess all right here here's the uh
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guess all right here here's the uh
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guess all right here here's the uh technical debt for today see Simon can
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technical debt for today see Simon can
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technical debt for today see Simon can you switch the
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slides tavid you're not sharing a screen
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slides tavid you're not sharing a screen
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slides tavid you're not sharing a screen because you dropped oh oh sorry about
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because you dropped oh oh sorry about
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because you dropped oh oh sorry about that
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go so what happens when you press the
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go so what happens when you press the
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go so what happens when you press the wrong freaking button maybe that button
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wrong freaking button maybe that button
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wrong freaking button maybe that button should have do you really want to log
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should have do you really want to log
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should have do you really want to log out kind of a message box
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out kind of a message box
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out kind of a message box anyway I found this today I I really
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anyway I found this today I I really
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anyway I found this today I I really like it uh because I hate technical debt
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like it uh because I hate technical debt
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like it uh because I hate technical debt with a passion and uh yeah I don't
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with a passion and uh yeah I don't
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with a passion and uh yeah I don't understand why it takes so long to add a
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understand why it takes so long to add a
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understand why it takes so long to add a new window exactly this is what happens
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new window exactly this is what happens
59:09
new window exactly this is what happens when companies or teams put all of their
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when companies or teams put all of their
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when companies or teams put all of their problems into this bucket and never deal
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problems into this bucket and never deal
59:14
problems into this bucket and never deal with it you're going to have this happen
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with it you're going to have this happen
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with it you're going to have this happen I've seen this happen countless times in
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I've seen this happen countless times in
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I've seen this happen countless times in my career and so don't do that and take
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my career and so don't do that and take
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my career and so don't do that and take care of stuff uh uh don't put it in the
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care of stuff uh uh don't put it in the
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care of stuff uh uh don't put it in the technical debt waste basket to me
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technical debt waste basket to me
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technical debt waste basket to me technical debt is a cancer on a project
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technical debt is a cancer on a project
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technical debt is a cancer on a project I have a meme about that I
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I have a meme about that I
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I have a meme about that I think
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um all right as always I hope you help
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um all right as always I hope you help
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um all right as always I hope you help me help the kids in in the slums in
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me help the kids in in the slums in
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me help the kids in in the slums in Delhi India uh please help the voice of
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Delhi India uh please help the voice of
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Delhi India uh please help the voice of Slum by uh donating anything you can to
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Slum by uh donating anything you can to
59:52
Slum by uh donating anything you can to them or buying school supplies or
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them or buying school supplies or
59:54
them or buying school supplies or clothing for the children and things
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clothing for the children and things
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clothing for the children and things like that you know School voice of Slum
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like that you know School voice of Slum
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like that you know School voice of Slum does a wonderful job of of of helping
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does a wonderful job of of of helping
1:00:02
does a wonderful job of of of helping you know children in the slums in Delhi
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you know children in the slums in Delhi
1:00:04
you know children in the slums in Delhi India get out of the slums uh get
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India get out of the slums uh get
1:00:07
India get out of the slums uh get clothing training uh school um fed they
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clothing training uh school um fed they
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clothing training uh school um fed they feed them they teach them how to use
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feed them they teach them how to use
1:00:14
feed them they teach them how to use computers um great great great
1:00:16
computers um great great great
1:00:16
computers um great great great organization and uh um and you know you
1:00:21
organization and uh um and you know you
1:00:21
organization and uh um and you know you know if you've ever been in a in a in a
1:00:24
know if you've ever been in a in a in a
1:00:24
know if you've ever been in a in a in a slum in Delhi India it's heartbreaking
1:00:26
slum in Delhi India it's heartbreaking
1:00:27
slum in Delhi India it's heartbreaking and so you know we really need to help
1:00:29
and so you know we really need to help
1:00:29
and so you know we really need to help these kids get out of that situation so
1:00:31
these kids get out of that situation so
1:00:31
these kids get out of that situation so they can have a better life you know
1:00:32
they can have a better life you know
1:00:32
they can have a better life you know kind of something we've been talking
1:00:33
kind of something we've been talking
1:00:34
kind of something we've been talking about this whole episode so um I hope
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about this whole episode so um I hope
1:00:37
about this whole episode so um I hope you go to voice ofs slam.org and donate
1:00:39
you go to voice ofs slam.org and donate
1:00:39
you go to voice ofs slam.org and donate whatever you can uh but please go there
1:00:42
whatever you can uh but please go there
1:00:42
whatever you can uh but please go there uh right after the show because I know
1:00:43
uh right after the show because I know
1:00:43
uh right after the show because I know Dave and Chandy need your help uh
1:00:46
Dave and Chandy need your help uh
1:00:46
Dave and Chandy need your help uh desperately all right so the next
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desperately all right so the next
1:00:48
desperately all right so the next episode is one month uh ked's going to
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episode is one month uh ked's going to
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episode is one month uh ked's going to be back I don't remember how many times
1:00:52
be back I don't remember how many times
1:00:52
be back I don't remember how many times he's been on the show uh but he's going
1:00:54
he's been on the show uh but he's going
1:00:54
he's been on the show uh but he's going to be back this his third or fourth time
1:00:57
to be back this his third or fourth time
1:00:57
to be back this his third or fourth time I can't remember now um Simon is telling
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I can't remember now um Simon is telling
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I can't remember now um Simon is telling me I think uh SE two times
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me I think uh SE two times
1:01:05
me I think uh SE two times um so he's going to be back on I don't
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um so he's going to be back on I don't
1:01:08
um so he's going to be back on I don't know what the subject is yet but I'm
1:01:10
know what the subject is yet but I'm
1:01:10
know what the subject is yet but I'm sure it'll be great because I I always
1:01:12
sure it'll be great because I I always
1:01:12
sure it'll be great because I I always enjoy talking to him as always please go
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enjoy talking to him as always please go
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enjoy talking to him as always please go donate blood this weekend America's in a
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donate blood this weekend America's in a
1:01:18
donate blood this weekend America's in a huge shortage especially around um
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huge shortage especially around um
1:01:20
huge shortage especially around um holiday weeks like we've had this week
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holiday weeks like we've had this week
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holiday weeks like we've had this week uh so please go donate I donated last uh
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uh so please go donate I donated last uh
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uh so please go donate I donated last uh uh Sunday uh please go donate I I think
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uh Sunday uh please go donate I I think
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uh Sunday uh please go donate I I think um my next donation I'll hit 20 gallons
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um my next donation I'll hit 20 gallons
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um my next donation I'll hit 20 gallons of uh uh blood donated I'm I'm pretty
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of uh uh blood donated I'm I'm pretty
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of uh uh blood donated I'm I'm pretty proud of that and uh so you go donate
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proud of that and uh so you go donate
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proud of that and uh so you go donate right now because you never know when
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right now because you never know when
1:01:41
right now because you never know when you're going to need the blood so uh
1:01:43
you're going to need the blood so uh
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you're going to need the blood so uh Bank up the karma all right with that uh
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Bank up the karma all right with that uh
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Bank up the karma all right with that uh please email me any suggestions comments
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please email me any suggestions comments
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please email me any suggestions comments for the show and uh and I'll see you
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for the show and uh and I'll see you
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for the show and uh and I'll see you back in one month with c
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